She comes back in my dreams.

Hello! Hard to say. It's been a long time, and as you said too, she's probably not even the same person you used to know anymore. I don't know the reasons why you have taken different paths, but usually a separation happens for a good reason. You could also try to call, but if I were you I would ask myself what makes you want to reconnect with a person who is part of your past, to come to understand if it can be a good choice. It is certainly risky.

Hi I'm going through a similar pass 8 years so. I know how your feeling, and no she's not the same person but are you the same man that you was,? Maybe that a good thing tho what ever happened between you is gone now. But call her, maybe y'all can start over start something new something better, I wish my husband would call me but he hasn't

@Courage1337,

I've experienced the same for years. Sometimes no dreams at all, and multiple times a week for like two weeks out of the blue. Felt like she was supporting me, consoling me, and telling me she held no grudges. Sometimes I would meet her while she was on a job, or volunteering. We would always talk and there was a deep understanding and a quiet warmth.

Maybe that is why she appears in your dreams. She might appear for the rest of your life.

To me it means you guys had an unique rare bond. Most people never experience such a bond.

I would cherish it and consider yourself privileged. Throw the phone number away. Do not call. It is good as it is.

Warmth and love to you