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No contact opinions?

flyingtuna7 March 8th, 2022

My ex and I broke up a month ago, she broke up with me. We have had no contact for 28-30ish days. I've accepted the breakup and have been working on myself and have been feeling better. I still have very strong feelings for her however and still think she is the one (But I am trusting God's plan and have faith he will guide me the right way). It was a long distance relationship, and she said the distance was the reason for her ending things.


I have a few questions/ opinions I would love to get others perspectives on:


-Since she broke up with me, should I wait for her to reach out to me?

-how long is too long for no contact? I was planning to go maybe 60 days before reaching out to see how she has been.

-I'm going to be in the same state as her next month (around 60 days of no contact) for work. Would it be a bad idea to reach out to her and see if she'd want to meet up for a coffee and catch up?


Obviously she still means a lot to me... She always will. But I am also thankful for the time we had and am open to where God will take me next. If it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be... I still think she is the one but am following and trusting God's path for me.

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barncat March 10th, 2022

@flyingtuna7- gosh that is a hard one. Sounds like she has moved on. Especially if she broke up with you. Take care of yourself and prepare for the reality that she most likely will not be in your life. To say otherwise would fill you with possible disappointment.