My wife doesn't love me anymore
Yesterday my wife sent me a message saying we needed to talk. I knew what was coming as we had some issues last year.
She told me she doesn't love me anymore.
we own a house and have a young boy together and they are my whole world, I love her so much and I have no idea what to do.
She isn't mad at me or angry or upset, just nothing, it seems like there is just no emotion from her at all.
I suggested marriage counseling but she has point blank refused and is not interested in trying to fix things.
We are on speaking terms but face to face communication is very hard.
I just feel dark and lost.
@mellowyellow23
Hi Mellow. Thanks for reaching out.
So sorry to hear this. I was going to suggest relationship counselling but from what you’ve said, your wife wasn’t interested. You must have so much running through your mind at the moment.
Do you mind me asking if you have support from family and/or friends? Please know there are people here who care and want to support you.
@mellowyellow23
I am sorry you are going through this.
That is a hard thing to hear. people do fall out of love. If she is against counseling you are going to need to face a different future then you planned.
IMO emotional connection is the more important one and yet seldom is addressed until it is gone. Communication even if hard is important and if she does not want counseling ....you will need to talk together.
Maybe tell her you want to know how you drifted apart for closure. I think 2 people can have civil talks or letters back and forth to understand what happened. With a child in the mix it is better to end on civil terms then you feeling blindsided and lost.
