I still have hope..?

@Wealllearn

I say if you are with her that is great but do not just stand there all the time and wait for her to come to you. I say go to her of let her go

@ambitiousShip409 thank you for your input. I don't want to wait around but I find myself with hope.

If you have gotten to this website or app you made the right distion to come here and get help

@Wealllearn, I'm going through something similar. I find myself hoping to get back together too. I think it's normal to want a relationship again and to hope for them to come back. I've had a really hard time dealing with my breakup and I have a really hard time opening up to people, so I've never really connected with anyone other than my ex boyfriend, so when I was dumped I immediately felt alone and wanted nothing more than for him to love me again. I felt alone. I still do. Its been about three weeks and I haven't really told anyone yet. Sometimes it's just too much to handle and sometimes I have moments of clarity where I realize that I can't go back to him. There are still gonna be the same issues in the relationship and I'd always be worried about losing him again. Most of the time, people don't change. And it's heartbreaking for me to admit to myself that I can't go back to him, but I can't go through this again. I'm not saying this is how your situation is, and maybe you guys can work it out. But if you're trying to move on, make a list of all the things you didn't like about your relationship, all the problems, why you didn't work as a couple, etc. I think that part of you wants/needs to move on and part of you doesn't want to. I think in the end you need to choose to move on and choose to be happy. I found this quote that really struck me. It said "be happy for no reason. If you're happy for a reason, you're in trouble because that reason can be taken from you" and that really applies to my situation. I was always mildly unhappy and then I met my ex and I was happy for two years and now I'm worse off than I was before. Anyway, sorry for rambling. My point is, you need to make a choice to take care of yourself. Hope I helped..

@Wealllearn

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