I need some advice
Hello people,
My boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I’ve been having the urge to message him, because I realised that I’ve probably broken the relationship. I asked him for more affection (more words of affirmation because that’s his love language - and he used to give it to me a lot during the first few stages of the relationship and it died down after a few months because he became more comfortable). But I asked him if I can receive more affection, and I feel like that was wrong of me or that I insulted him because I feel like he might have felt like what he did wasn’t enough for me.
He was passive aggressive at times when I wanted to communicate, and was only passive aggressive because he thought that some of my texts seemed passive aggressive (I didn’t know he saw them as passive aggressive). And he doesn’t really initiate conversations like that. I also asked if he can initiate plans because I found myself initiating them more.
I still love him a lot, and I want to give the relationship another go. But I’m not sure if I should, or if it’s the right decision.