I literally can't get my ex off my mind

I think u both should set your ego aside and talk abt it. Maybe u both secretly love each other and want to spend time. Just give it a shot if u think it will make both of u happy. If its just u who wants to start the relation with him den try to forget him and date someone else. U ll get over him soon :)

I really liked this guy we were friend for a while and flirted a bit. All of a sudden he's egnoring my for the past 2 months. I am extremely hurt by this. I have sent numours messages and no reply. He sent one message sat nite saying 'maybe give me ur number and il ring u some time be easier than mailing me'! I took it as a fob off. I mailed him since asking what's wrong and nothing again. What do I do??

In 2006 I met the perfect man for me. He was funny, smart, handsome, and had could take care of his self. We were able to talk about ANYTHING with no fear and no judgment. I've never been more comfortable around anyone ever. We lived together and were the best family unit. My daughter loved him. Everything was, dare I say, perfect. Don't get me wrong we were a normal couple with normal arguments. Well in August of 2010 I received a call from CPS with accusations of my man touching my, then 8yr old, daughter. As you can imagine I cried... A lot. Of course I left him even though I had so many doubts about the accusations, I had to do what was best for my daughter.

Charges were filed and he ended up taking a plea deal. This helped concrete his guilt in my head. I moved out of state because we were both very well know where we were and I couldn't handle the looks of pity anymore. Almost 5 years later I still can't let go... And the worst part is that it's the relationship I miss. How did something so good go so bad?!?!? I'm in a relationship now and I'm generally happy but it's not what my ex and I had. And I find myself just going through the motions of a relationship. I miss the life I had and feel like I'm either poisoning the new relationship with old expectations or the old keeps coming back to haunt me because I know I'm in a relationship that doesn't make me happy. I just want to stop crying, hurting, and generally being numb.

Breakups are hard, but keep up the good work :)

I'm no expert but if you two are in love then you should be able to say literally anything to each other. So lay it all out there. You don't have to beg but tell him how you feel and what you think is holding you two back. Just be prepared for the worst and just maybe you'll be surprised.

I feel the same way but I am the one that ruined the relationship with my drinking and insecurities. I have a history of falling backwards in stressful, fearful times. Iam resuming my councilingand detoxingnow but now Im homeless since he kicked me out and I am on disability so I do not have an income that I can live on but I need Social Security for medical coverage. I can say so much more but I hurt from hurting him bc he is a really great person.

I'm no expert but if you two are in love then you should be able to say literally anything to each other. So lay it all out there. You don't have to beg but tell him how you feel and what you think is holding you two back. Just be prepared for the worst and just maybe you'll be surprised.

I have a ex and I can't get him out of my mind but I have a boyfriend and he's kind of a jerk buy I like him he does cute little half smiles and brown eyes he just looks at me and it melts me inside but he is just a jerk tells me to buy him stuff and calls me a slut etc

Just tell him

Please tell him and be honest about your feelings! I've only been with my boyfriend for as long as I have because I've been honest. We've been through similar situations and it's so important to never hide your feelings. You'll regret it later, you really will, don't let it remain unsaid, you're feeling that way for a reason.