He needs to move on.
I need him to move on and leave me alone. He is a classic narcissist in every sense of the word. And in my opinion passive aggressive as well. He broke up with me; in a text. Then decided to call me and do it all over again. He wished me a good life; sarcastically. Then hung up on me. I need to re-prioritize my life and see what I'm doing wrong to become involved with this type of person. The sooner I do this, the better my life will become especially with relationships. I'm tired of being hurt and feeling worthless. I know I shouldn't allow myself; but I'm attracted to a certain type of person. I really need to work on this instead of burying my head in the sand.
xandia❤️
@xandia
Sitting with you, Xan!❤
Breakups are sad, specially a kind where it just makes one question everything else in life, the ones that hit us the hardest, can understand how difficult this must be for you.
I'd like to commend you for using this space to share a bit into what you're thinking and feeling, which is so not comfortable to do at times, and yet again, I see the strong and determined person that you are, wanting to acknowledge the situation at hand, assess the feelings, and see what can be done moving ahead, so you don't have to fall into such again. You definitely did deserve a lot better than this, and always do.
Please take all your time processing the aftermath, you're more than allowed to move at your pace, be it through the feelings, or re-prioritizing your life, you got this, always!
Sending lots of love and hugs.❤
@xandia I definitely hear you - it's natural to want to avoid scenarios with hurt. My coach recommended I read this article about coping with stress. Maybe it'll help you too - https://www.verywellmind.com/avoidance-coping-and-stress-4137836#:~:text=Avoidance%20coping%20involves%20trying%20to,reduce%20the%20stress%20it%20causes.
