He felt too dependent on me
He broke up with me because he felt too dependent on me and that he couldnt provide for me. I think it stems from anxiety, depression. He told me we can try again when he figures things out. And that he wants to stay friends. But i havent heard from him in the 2.5 weeks since the breakup. I want him back but idk what to do...
@Hannagrace
Have you tried having a conversation with him about this? Now that there's been some time since the break-up and you're not running high on those immediate heavy break-up emotions? It sounds like there's a disconnect between what you need and want from him and what he THINKS you need from him. Or he isn't letting you know the full extent of why he chose to break up with you and is choosing to blame it on one issue when there are more things going on.
You've given him his space and he if he needs more, you can give that but it's not fair for him to leave you limbo. You should at least find out what's going on. In the best case scenario, you would figure things out together.
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