Guilt and moving forward.
I was with my girl friend for almost 9 months, I loved her deeply. It had been long distance for quite awhile, anyway as her life got crazy I started to feel like an after thought. On Sunday instead of talk to her about it a tough time I broke up with her. It shredded me, I felt like I was ripping my own damn heart out. Her response made me angry, it was calm and accepting, she had been thinking along the same lines, I have been feeling guilty for being angry about that for the last few days. Any suggestions on getting past that guilt and moving forward from her? I really don't want anything right now.
@Zan2
Hey, hello there,
Im sorry you had to go through this difficult time, and i can imagine how painful this must have been for you, but I think we gain a lot of knowledge from breakups and self reflection, in time, once we have processed the initial hurt.
I notice you made this post a while ago now, so tell me, how have things worked out for you?
I hope things have settled down for you, and that you are enjoying life again!
Take care and best wishes
@professionalPerspective60
I moved forward, it took me less time than I expected. Typically with my girlfriends before her there had been gaps of up to two years where I was single. This one was only three to four months, granted I was only vaguely trying to date when I got together with my current girlfriend but it's been great. I still wish her the best.
@Zan2
Hi!
Im really pleased to hear things have worked out well for you, this is great news!
I hope you are happy, and continue to be for a long time!
Take care and best wishes
