Cheated on
I have been cheated on by my ex. Nearing to the end of the relationship, the whole relationship was a circus act. He lied, denied and gaslighted his cheatings. But the worst is him trying to appear the most loyal and faithful person and is now on all dating apps dating new girls.
I feel very betrayed. How do I fully let go
@bubblePrune3228
It's hard to fully let go of someone who treats you like this, trust me. i learned from experience, but you shouldn't let one person control how you feel, you shouldn't carry the guilt too.
If you want to overcome this, take some away from your ex's media. Block them, never check their profile, and most importantly don't get back with them.
Take some time away**
Not stalking them online, and cutting off contacts are both difficult. But it's essential to moving on. I feel stuck at times
@bubblePrune3228
I completely understand what you are going through, I am going through the same thing, except they are lying and saying that I cheated... wild. It's so hard being gaslight about your previous relationship, it makes you question yourself and your relationship, and that is horrible. What happened is not your fault at all and your reality is real, do not let them take away from that or your experience with that happened. Idk if this helps but I believe you. I know it's hard to see them pretend to be loyal in their new relationship and lie about what happened, just know that people that do that generally do not like themselves. They know the truth, they know they cheated, they are just trying to justify it to themselves to make themselves feel better about what happened. I believe things like this catch up to people who are lying to themselves and the person they are with. It is only a matter of time. For now focus on yourself, healing, and validating your own experience. Build yourself up, become the person that they can never have.