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fairmindedOcean8262 December 2nd, 2016

We had a lovely and amazing relationship and now it's over. I just want the feeling of agony to end already, but I don't know how?

You think you know someone

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professionalPerspective60 December 2nd, 2016

@fairmindedOcean8262

Hello there lovely!

Ahhh, I'm sorry to hear your upset, and in these situations, and I know it's probably not what you want to hear right now, but all you need is some time to heal, things will improve once you have processed your feelings, try your best not to overthink the reasons why, because it kinda just prolongs the healing process, but do try and make plans with the people in your life who bring the best out in you, the guys who you enjoy spending time with and make you smile.

I sure do hope things start to be a little easier for you, and remember, you have a community of people here just waiting to support you.

Take care, look after yourself.

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fairmindedOcean8262 OP December 4th, 2016

@professionalPerspective60

Thank you, all of the helpful support makes it not feel so lonely. I appreciate the supportive words.

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ali1112 December 3rd, 2016

@fairmindedOcean8262

Hi. It sounds like youre broken hearted and there isnt much you can do but let time heal your wounds. Taking care of your self is always important and will help you heal, so continue to do the things that make you happy, or that you once found enjoyable. Continue to go out with your friends and seek support from those around you. Over time, as the seasons change you will notice the pain will become less intense and severe.

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fairmindedOcean8262 OP December 4th, 2016

@ali1112

I am broken hearted. Thank you for the thoughtful kind response and advice. This is such a giving community. And it helps reminds me that love is still everywhere.

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usefulJewel19 December 4th, 2016

@fairmindedOcean8262

I understand your pain. it is hard when someone you love deeply leaves you. you become confused and hurting inside a lot. But with time you learn how to live without them little by little.

We often think that some person is the one for you but end up not being the case so we tend to question our self. But if it is the right one for us break up or separation would never happen.

I hope that you find the strength to move on. enjoy life with the blessings you have now. make your self prepare for the right person.

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fairmindedOcean8262 OP December 4th, 2016

@usefulJewel19

Thank you for the support. I really appreciate it.

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Ladybug11 December 20th, 2016

@fairmindedOcean8262 I felt like that too before :( and an Honest answer of what helped me out? Distraction by friends that told me that I will be fine and he wont be the last one, as well as distractions by video games and movies/TV series. And Time. That was honestly what helped me most, the more you believe it is not worth to feel upset over, the faster you get over it. But it is so painful :( I am really sorry you have to go through this xx