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Any advice will help. So confused...

Melloncollie1985 March 28th, 2016
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I finally hit the 2 wk mark of no contact with the ex yesterday. I woke up today with a txt from him. Asking what i work today/tomorrow? what do i do? do i ask why? do i even respond?

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@Melloncollie1985

For whatever reasons it ended,You have to decide if it's worth it. It might be hard to separate your feelings from having a conversation with him. Do what's healthiest for you. And you'll always know what that is

AdVictoriam March 28th, 2016
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Breakups are really difficult and one of the absolute hardest things to do is not contact the other person until you're ready.

You mentioned that you went 2 weeks without any contact with him - was there a reason that you went without contact? If so, is that reason stron enough for you to continue not contacting him?

Something else to consider - if you do respond, what do you want the interaction to be like? Having some sort of goal in mind can help you feel less lost when you do respond :)

Melloncollie1985 OP March 28th, 2016
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Apparently i had something he needed. He just left. But not without wanting to talk. I feel nothing/numb towards him rt now. I dont think im fully comprehending all he said at this point.

AdVictoriam March 28th, 2016
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@Melloncollie1985

*hugs*