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Melloncollie1985
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Finally ready to move on or so i thought
Relationship Stress / by Melloncollie1985
Last post
 April 3rd, 2017
...See more After my 6yr relationship i decided to just be by myself. Itll be 2yrs in August. I briefly dated someone but decided i wasnt ready. Besides he had a lot of issues. So now ive met someone who i think im ready to move on with. But some words/actions have triggered me and made me shut down. Most recently he told me he offered his spare rm to a female coworker. She already accepted it b4 he even told me. It shut me down like all i went thru with the ex. Maybe im just not ready? Or are these the red flags i think they are? Now im questioning if i should stick around or end it now? My last relationship really messed me up. Advice?
Just a quick question/need advice
Relationship Stress / by Melloncollie1985
Last post
 June 19th, 2016
...See more Tomorrow is fathers day. Do i wish my ex happy fathers day? He wished me a happy mothers day but we were on speaking terms then. We are no longer on speaking terms. I feel kinda obligated to but at the same time i dont want to open that door bc im doing so well finally. Thoughts? Advice?
Having a rough day.
Relationship Stress / by Melloncollie1985
Last post
 May 29th, 2016
...See more Although i broke up with him almost a yr ago. He continued to stay in my life. We havent talked in over a wk now. Which bothers me but at the sametime im glad. But today is hitting me hard. My ex works for a company that does all the tires for the indy car series. So im watching the indy 500 (which i never would have b4, i hate racing) and all i can think about is him. I had a ticket with his family to go this yr but im sure his current girlfriend is there in my place. He is currently dating a girl that he cheated on me with a yr ago. Although i know i did what was best for me i still miss all the good times and feelings. I miss his family and all the stuff we did together. I just want to get over these feelings already. He cheated alot. He broke me down and left me a broken shell. I got out bc i knew i couldnt go on living my life like that anymore. Why cant i let go!?
Just when things are looking up...
Depression Support / by Melloncollie1985
Last post
 April 12th, 2016
...See more Life is just hitting me hard today. I had an opportunity for what i thought was a better job. I called to schedule my interview (which is on mon) they informed me that it wont be full time. I wont leave a full time job for a part time job. Im just really upest that i finally get an opportunity/glimpse of hope and the rug is pulled from under me. I feel like i could be doing so much more in life. I just dont know how to start or what exactly i want to do. I fell like my life is ar a stand still. What do i do!?
I finally see him for who/what his is but why does it still bother me?
Relationship Stress / by Melloncollie1985
Last post
 April 5th, 2016
...See more My ex decided after 2wks no contact to txt me. He needed somethings that i still had. He came over and wanted to talk. He told me that we have to have some form of communication. He went on to say hes tried to move on but its not working. (Hes currently in a relationship with someone he cheated on me with) He went on to say he still thinks of me when he wakes up to the moment he falls asleep. He thinks about us getting married and having a family. Etc... its all things to try to pull me back in and i know that. He came over yday and i could actually look at him and feel nothing for the 1st time in 6yrs. Im just not understanding why im still thinking about all he said when i know its all lies? He will never change. In the few moments he was around me he was hiding his phone and we arent even together. Im just still confused.
Any advice will help. So confused...
Relationship Stress / by Melloncollie1985
Last post
 March 28th, 2016
...See more I finally hit the 2 wk mark of no contact with the ex yesterday. I woke up today with a txt from him. Asking what i work today/tomorrow? what do i do? do i ask why? do i even respond?
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