People think I’m narcissistic

So I have a “friend” (I actually dont consider anyone as a friend except very few people) And I notice somerimes I can be quite.. selfish or whatever. She noticed this, and as she is studying to become a psychologist, well you know. I realized because we were together and I was showing her my gallery and I take a lot of selfies. She said “narcissistic problems” I laughed it off but whatever. She then said “I want to stop being friends with someone” I think its obvious that she was talking about me. Now we barely talk and this was last week.. I feel like I bother people but honestly *** I just thought about it and I dont like people having this idea about me.
Someones reading this, please talk to me <3
people dont think im narcissistic but they saying im an egoist. i mean, everyone has to be one if they want to survive, yk? i wont put anyone over me. and tbh,
calling someone narcissistic over such thing is lame to me, unless there are other symptoms. my last friendship was destroyed after 9 years because he found the way i think awful and terrible, he was messaging me less and less. might be happenig to you too