am I healed or just numb?
i was diagnosed with BPD back in 2019. Early 2023 I was in a very bad state, having multiple on-and-off relationship and stressed out at work to the point of severe burnout. I took a travel leave for 3 months and now that I'm back to my hometown, I feel unattached and numb. My friends at work said that I'm not getting involved in any drama anymore (because I actively avoiding any kind of romantic relationship now). I go straight home after work and spent most of my time watching tv shows and knitting. It feels peaceful, but I also notice something else is changing in me. I'm starting to get irritated by my friends trying to make plans with me, to the point where I snapped at my friend on the phone just because she's asking where I was so she can join me. Even towards friends that I usually reach out to, when they messaged me back I felt anger for not getting back to me sooner. I'm having one less problem by not getting involved in situationships anymore and my life feels calmer, but I feel like angry at my friends more as well. Is this what healing supposed to feel like?