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Making Amends After Isolation

StrawberryEyes June 9th, 2021

How do I apologize to people for isolating for months after a BPD psychosis episode? I broke from reality and spiraled hard. I stopped talking to everyone because I didn't know how anymore. I'm afraid one person in particular will probably be really hurt and maybe feel betrayed. We shared a traumatic experience together which was part of what triggered my episode. But I was supposed to be there for them. I feel so guilty. I know I need to just tell what happened with me and accept that they may not be able to forgive me.

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lindaperson June 9th, 2021

You are right, you can only share and apologize and accept that they will respond however they respond. I have also lost essentially any friend I’ve had due to my struggles with BPD, and it’s traumatic and filled with grief. The tables turned and I had to cut out someone who also had some sort of psychotic issues. It’s sucks but people can only handle what they can handle. At least we have a space like this where we can share and connect with eachother

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StrawberryEyes OP June 10th, 2021

I'm very sorry for your losses and that you had to go through those things. I know when I withdraw it is hurtful to others but I try my very best to keep everything inside so that I don't hurt them more with my distorted thoughts. I wish you healing

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