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Did I made the right decision?

User Profile: xxrrbe
xxrrbe 3 days ago

I am currently 6 months pregnant and was almost 4 weeks pregnant when i found out and immediately spoke to the father of my child.


We decides to do co parenting, I do not agree with this however I was so lost and afraid that i can’t do it alone so I had agreed.


however, since this conversation, I never really saw or felt his interest with me nor the child.


he was totally absent, he never checked on us, never there emotionally, physically, nor financially.


worst, found out he was seeing/speaking to someone else already when i was almost 2 months pregnant.


it was the situation until 2 weeks ago i decided to move back to the philippines (i was living overseas alone) as the situation was really stressful and i am alone without support.


when he found out, he reached out asking for my home address and wants his parents to see me and the child once i gave birth, he still insists on co parenting. however, during this time, i no longer want to co parent with him and i am decided to raise the child alone after all what he has done.


so i i frankly told him my decision and he never reached out after.


do you think i made the right decision?



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User Profile: MistyMagic
MistyMagic 2 days ago

@xxrrbe Hi there, I feel that the answer could be that only time will tell and then only you will know. The main thing is to concentrate on the baby coming and everything that will entail. How are you feeling during your third trimester?