[OLD THREAD] Project Achieve Your Goals - TEENS!!!
Setting goals is the easy part...reaching them can be more challenging!
Having someone support you in reaching your personal goals can be incredibly helpful. Today, wed like to announce a new community program aimed at helping you reach your goals.
Well need both listeners & members to make this happen! Here is how you can get involved in this project:
Members:
Step 1: Post a goal youd like to work towards in this thread. Be specific! Goals work great when you can make them measurable. Usually that involves a time period and a number of times. Additionally, you want to start by making goals achievable. Do not make your goals too hard or you will grow frustrated and not be able to reach them. Much better to make them easy to accomplish to build your confidence right from the start.
examples:
I want to cook dinner for myself 3 nights per week
I want to go to the gym 1 time per week
Take 3 growth path steps every day
Step 2: Specify if you'd like a listener to check in on you 1 or 2x/week.
Step 3: Wait for a listener to reply to you! They will reply and let you know they will support you reach this goal.
Step 4: PM this listener to get going! They will not be able to support you by checking in on you if you do not first PM them. If you find that a listener has not followed up, then please post again and request another listener.
Step 5: Post your progress each week in this thread and also on your feed so more people can support you in achieving your goals.
Step 6: Once you have achieved your goal and the new behavior or habit has been consistent for 21 days, then apply for the Goal 1 Badge. We'll likely have several goals, so there will be Goal 2, Goal 3 etc. (Feel free to help us come up with better names!)
Listeners:
Step 1: Wait for members to share their goals in this thread! When you see a goal/member youd like to support, reply to their forum post and let them know!
Step 2: Once this member has messaged you and established connection over PM, its your job to better understand the members goal, why its important and what you can do to best support them.
Step 3: Make a commitment! Check-in with this member twice per week and enquire about the goal!
Step 4: Let us know how you and your member are doing! In this thread, we will track your progress as team. Post here to let us know how it's going!
Step 5: After your member has reached their goal, let us know and apply for the Coach badge. More details on this soon!
My goal is to tell my parents and brother that I am bi. I told my best friend yesterday, but my parents aren't as accepting.
@Nutmeg30120 That's an awesome goal, and one I can definitely relate to! If you'd like, you can PM me so we can talk more about your goal. I'd love to support you. :D
My goal is to use my two-year relationship that ended as a way to learn more about myself and come to terms with it.
@soundsydney Hi! That sounds like a great goal to have and a really productive thing to be doing after the end of your relationship. I'd really love to support you in this if you'd like! Feel free to send me a PM so that we can talk about it :)
Being more open with people. Coming out to one of my friends.
@impartialTree3773 that's a great goal! I'd love to help and support you in achieving your goal :) feel free to PM me so we can discuss your goal 
@impartialTree3773
Hey! That is a great goal. How do you plan on telling your friend?
I can do the challenge that my therapist gives me. I know I can do it, so I can over come my social anxiety and depression, or just learn to deal with them.
Hiya @Natalie1225 ! I would absolutely love to help you with this goal! PM me and we can discuss ways to help you out! <3 KikaPika
I want to stop being so negative about my disability and be positive.
@Brokenheartedcerebralpalsygirl
i have the Same goals as well. I hope we'll get through this
My goal is to tell my parents about my depression
My goal is to be more confident and to be thankful for everything instead of regretting
Hiya @Blueberryblitzz ! This is such an awesome goal and I totally want to help you with it! PM me and we can totally plan out how you are going to achieve it! Have a great day! <3 KikaPika
hello! I'd love for you to help me!! I messaged you :-)
My goals:
1. Learn the periodic table
2. Don't hold myself apart from everything (or do less of this)
3. Spend more time with my family
@melichrous Hey there. I'd love to help you achieve your goals. You can PM me whenever you want and we can get started 
My goals are to not worry so much and look at things in a more positive light. Also to not let the actions of others put me in distress and to hopefully be more appreciative.
@JazmEEnah Hi Jazz! I would love to support you to achieve this amazing goal. You can PM me whenever you want to and I will answer as soon as I see it! :)
Don't stress out so much about the future and focus on the present.
