am i lesbian or bisexual if i only watch lesbian porn?
Okay, so I only really watch lesbian porn because it’s the only thing I like in that area. When i try to watch straight porn i get turned off because of the man and i find myself just watching the woman. I also question whether it’s lesbian or bisexual if i like a few male celebrities and fictional characters but wouldn’t want to entertain the idea of being with a man in real life. when i think about my future i usually picture a woman when i think about my wedding. am i just in denial? i’m honestly so confused. it also might be because of a fear of rejection. when i was about 11 i told my mom i was a lesbian and she did not love that. it was mostly because of my age. i still know that if i’m not lesbian i am bi with a STRONG preference for women.
Also bi here, I wanted to say the only one who can decide what label fits you best is you. But I will say that a lot of bi people have a strong preference for one sex over another. I'm also partially asexual so idk if it effects this but I have a strong aesthetic preference for women (not really sexual per se just find them prettier) but I get along personality wise with guys better (probably bc I'm a bit of a tomboy). Only been with guys but I'd date ladies if I work up the courage. 😶🌫️ I just wanted to pitch in with my 2 cents that it's very common to feel like that, not everyone is a 50/50 split.