Kicking around the idea of being Non-binary and Trans, especially trans

Hello my name is Matthew and I'm kicking around the idea of being non-binary and trans. I tend to feel more like a woman than a man but I do have my guy days and moments. I want to be seen/called a woman by others more often IRL especially when I get dolled up and have tried going to a few restaurants well dressed up to see if the staff would see me as a woman. I mix and match clothes from both into an outfit on a regular basis. I'm not on hrt so people see that I have a guy's body and refer to me as such, which is alright but I tend to get bummed that it was "sir" and not "ma'am" (sort of a being called a guy is alright but if you really want to see me smile call me a girl) I watch content from Trans creators and artists on a regular basis