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This is how I would explain to a little kid what it's like to be trans or non binary.
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by A0curious0fire
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 Thursday
...See more Okay I've been kicking this around up at work for a while now but this is how I would explain what it's like to be trans to a little kid: some princes were born as a prince and expected to behave as a prince but deep down inside, he would feel more comfortable as a princess instead. Some princesses were born as a princess and expected to behave as a princess, but just like the prince who would feel more comfortable as a princess, she would feel more comfortable as a prince instead. For the beans out there: some people were born as a prince or a princess but depending on the person, that might not be correct. You might fall outside of that, or have qualities of both a prince and princess, or even shift between the two. If you don't feel like a prince or a princess at all or kind of feel like a prince or princess but not really, I want you to know that there's nothing wrong with you and you're valid.
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So someone is screaming "get counseling" in your face, so let's try this angle then
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by A0curious0fire
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 January 2nd
...See more If you really think about the people screaming "get counseling, seek therapy" or anything along those lines is basically giving you the green light to seek out a gender therapist in order to work through whatever you're kicking around inside your head, and this can help get the boulder rolling regarding your transition. So keep screaming "seek counseling" transphobes/homophobes because you're advising us to seek gender affirming care
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The trans pin I ordered a week ago finally arrived. I'm kicking around he/him because I still have my guy days and moments. Feel more woman than man
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by A0curious0fire
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 December 10th, 2024
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I ordered a transgender pin
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by A0curious0fire
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 December 10th, 2024
...See more I put in an order for a transgender pin with she/her/they/them/he/him on etsy a few hours but I kept going back and forth for a while between the first option and she/her/they/them because it would feel weird to not use he/him since I've always strictly used those pronouns up until now. I used she/he and now I'm giving she/they a chance. I'm genderfluid so I know I'm going to have my guy days and moments but I usually feel more like a woman than a guy. After placing the order and paying for the pin, I started thinking: If someone puts tape over a set of pronouns on a pronoun pin and t he tape  is covering them more often than not, then those pronouns probably don't feel right to use
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Just in case a homophobe/transphobe is demanding that you debate your existence with them and you need a pick me up afterwards.
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by A0curious0fire
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 November 29th, 2024
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I shut down a transphobe
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by A0curious0fire
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 November 20th, 2024
...See more A transphobe tried to use the "it's basic biology excuse" and called me delusional to try and shut me down. So I posted a link to an article about advanced biology and a link to the ask transgender subreddit that talked about this topic. Turns out he got muted for a week and the Mods are going to keep an eye on him. I wish I di that to the first guy who tried to call the community delusional
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Kicking around the idea of being Non-binary and Trans, especially trans
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by A0curious0fire
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 November 19th, 2024
...See more Hello my name is Matthew and I'm kicking around the idea of being non-binary and trans. I tend to feel more like a woman than a man but I do have my guy days and moments. I want to be seen/called a woman by others more often IRL especially when I get dolled up and have tried going to a few restaurants well dressed up to see if the staff would see me as a woman. I mix and match clothes from both into an outfit on a regular basis. I'm not on hrt so people see that I have a guy's body and refer to me as such, which is alright but I tend to get bummed that it was "sir" and not "ma'am" (sort of a being called a guy is alright but if you really want to see me smile call me a girl) I watch content from Trans creators and artists on a regular basis 
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