Hi
Hi, I was trying to find a chat to help me understand me being bisexual more. Just having a hard time with this. When someone has time can you please help me. Thank you so much.
@dancinggirl2 hi there! would you like to discuss that 1-on-1 or on the forums? :)
@KateDoskocilova, Hi, if it's ok can I message you? If not it's ok.
@dancinggirl2 why of course you can 😁!
I'm having a hard time with being bi too, but I guess I would say to both of us--Rome wasn't built in a day! We don't have to have it sll figured out and accepted right now. I have been out just over a year, and I am still struggling with it. I'm going to attend some Pride events this month and try to find a place there for me. That's all I can do for now, other than work in therapy to deal with the tough parts.
I'm in the same boat. I came out a year ago, at 56 years old. I am comfortable enough to say that I am bisexual, and am going to attend some Pride events, but that's basically all I have managed so far. You know what though? I'm not going to shame myself for it. I will let it unfold naturally. It will evolve however it's supposed to. I have been plenty shamed by others who suspected I was lesbian. They are just bigots. I don't need to keep internalizing the shame messages. Anyway, I hope you benefit from some aspect of what I have said, or get support from anywhere!
