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Help Finding Other Lesbians? :,(

MikalaC234 March 9th, 2021

Hi! I’m 18 and openly gay. However, now that I’m an adult and not at an arts school anymore (where there were plenty of LGBT+ peeps), I don’t know where to find other people like me. I wish I had more LGBT people to talk to, especially lesbians. I’m looking for a relationship, and I am having so much trouble finding lesbians (bisexuals, etc) in person. I don’t know which dating sites are safe and LGBT-affirming. Any suggestions? I’m also okay with online friends who are around my age, anyone want to be friends?

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babeyjaney113 April 19th

@MikalaC234 hey, i'm Jane/Janey. i'm 17(18 in october) and have recently discovered my lesbian identity. i'm an online highschool senior(wish i went to art school) and i also have the same trouble of not being able to connect with other lesbians. i come from a conservative but very loud family, but none of them are openly gay. it's really isolating. i'm more than happy to be of support and become friends if you're keen.

all the best xoxo

VAT7Kfangirl April 23rd

I’m only 13 but as another lesbian in this community I’m happy to be a friend or just a random supporter 

Hey! I’m 13 and lesbian and had the same problem as you. But then I found out that the community college had a GSA that anyone could go to. I made some friends (and a gf 😜) but I took a lot of work and branching out, but it’s worth it to find a community