So someone is screaming "get counseling" in your face, so let's try this angle then

If you really think about the people screaming "get counseling, seek therapy" or anything along those lines is basically giving you the green light to seek out a gender therapist in order to work through whatever you're kicking around inside your head, and this can help get the boulder rolling regarding your transition. So keep screaming "seek counseling" transphobes/homophobes because you're advising us to seek gender affirming care