**TRIGGER WARNING** abuse

I feel like people don’t believe me about my abuse because my ex parter is transmasc and they infantilize him. I was slightly taller than him as well which doesn’t help I guess. He’s also a poc so it looks like I’m crying white woman tears to a lot of folks. Really frustrating trying to call out abusers in already marginalized communities. He also gets freebies from a lot of folks because he’s so charming and is a “feminist” and has been considered “one of the girls”. His top artist on Spotify was Chappell Roan. I’m traumatized for life and I never want to hear Hot To Go ever again, anyone else struggle with abuse in the queer community, particularly from transmascs or two spirit folks? 🥲