Potentially on the Asexual Spectrum????
I have recently realized that I think I am on the asexual spectrum. I think I have known it for a long time now but I have always suppressed the idea of it because the definition of it I was finding only seemed half accurate plus a previous partner of mine very much helped convince me I wasn't because of how much we... Interacted... With each other in that way.
I have never had an issue with having sex in general. I even used to enjoy it more often than not. Granted I was younger and very hormonal at that time and age.
Now I am 21 and sex seems amazing and fun in theory and in thought but in application it is just annoying and rarely pleasureable.
I started researching this and found the term: Aegosexual which refers to people who. experience a disconnect between themselves and the topic of arousal.
I am still not 100% sure if this right for me but finding the term at least gave me what I needed to be able to explain how I have been feeling to my partner.
It sounds like you've been on a journey of self-discovery regarding your sexuality, and it's great that you're exploring and finding terms that resonate with your experiences. It's common for people to have doubts or to suppress aspects of their identity, especially when societal norms and previous experiences come into play. Realizing that you might be on the asexual spectrum, particularly identifying with the term "aegosexual," can be a significant step in understanding yourself better. It's okay if you're still not entirely sure—it's all about finding what feels right for you and being comfortable with that. Opening up to your partner about these feelings is a courageous step, and it's essential for fostering understanding and communication in your relationship. Being able to articulate your experiences and preferences can lead to greater acceptance and support from your partner. Remember, sexuality is fluid and can evolve over time, so what feels right for you now might change in the future, and that's okay too. The most important thing is to honor and embrace your authentic self, whatever that may look like. If you ever need further support or guidance, there are communities and resources available here to help navigate this journey.
