I am confused... help :D
Hello, I am new here! I am glad I could find this community and I hope to be as helpful for you too. I am am 21 years old, female. I have NEVER been in a relationship and I have rarely had crushes. But lately I have been feeling like having a relationship... And I am questioning things.
@GirlyClouds
Hey there! Welcome to the community! It's awesome that you're excited to be here and hoping to contribute. No worries at all about being new or not having been in a relationship before – everyone's journey is different.
Relationships can be amazing, but they're not a one-size-fits-all kind of thing. Take your time, enjoy the ride, and don't stress too much about the whole "never been in a relationship" thing. It's not a race, and there's no right or wrong timeline.
If you ever want to chat more or have questions, this community's got your back! 😊
@tranquilechoes
Oh I appreciate this so much! Hi, again.
The problem is that I am so confused about my sexuality and what to do. I feel like I need advice or something to help me understand myself.
@GirlyClouds
Hey again! No worries at all – I'm here to offer support in any way I can. It's absolutely okay to feel a bit uncertain about your sexuality; many people go through a similar journey, and there's no specific timeline for figuring it all out.
Here are a few suggestions that might be helpful:
Take some time to reflect on your feelings and attractions. Consider what or who makes you feel a certain way, and jotting down your thoughts can help organize them.
Learning from others' experiences can be enlightening. Listening to different stories might resonate with you and provide insights into your own feelings.
Remember, there's no need to rush into labeling yourself or figuring everything out. Feelings can be fluid and change over time, which is perfectly normal.
If you're comfortable, consider talking to friends, family, or a trusted person in the community. Sharing your thoughts and feelings can bring support and different perspectives.
There are plenty of resources available on different sexualities and orientations. Educating yourself on the subject might help you find words to describe your feelings or gain a better understanding.
Ultimately, it's okay to be unsure. The key is to be true to yourself and take the time you need to figure things out. You've got a whole community here cheering you on, so feel free to reach out whenever you want to chat or have questions! 😊🌈
@GirlyClouds
also I don't if this is helpful in anyway but I am bisexual so I understand where you are coming from 🤍✨
@tranquilechoes
This helps a lot.
I would love to chat with someone who could just listen to me and help me, because It is like I want to start meeting people.
🥰
@GirlyClouds
I am here for you but heads up I am younger than you so if u r not comfortable with that u can find a different listener I completely understand 🤍