What does this sound like to you as far as gender?
Hey, so gender thoughts have been coming up again. For some background: I came out as genderfluid in 2016, then I was nonbinary for awhile and then I detransitioned completely in 2022, but now I'm back to reconsidering it. I was 24 in 2016 and I'm 30 now.
Whenever the question comes up if I am a man, a woman or nonbinary I just say: "I am me." Or "I just want to be me whatever that is."
I don't see myself as a man or woman in my golden years, what I see is a mystic on a far away hill by the sea that lives in their cottage and minds their own business but will lend a hand to others, animals especially if needed. Gender is what I make of it. I am a person first.
So what would that sound like to you?
@amaranthsnowleopard
While I can't determine what your gender is for you, some of what you describe sounds similar to the experience of someone who identifies as agender.
I think that also sounds like agender. I wish you luck finding a label that best suits you however it’s always possible to stay unlabeled and not identify in a specific way when it comes to gender.
It sounds like you're just a human being, who doesn't place a lot of emphasis on their gender. You're you, and labels don't really matter honestly. There's really no reason to slap one on if you don't need to. Why try to fit into an artificial box, instead of just living your life
@amaranthsnowleopard There's not too much to go by, but it sounds like you might be agender, meaning you don't have a gender, but I'm just guessing.
@amaranthsnowleopard You could also just go unlabeled with your gender. That is an option.