@freshman12
I was taken away from my mother, by my father. He first told me she died, but later said that she got remarried and had a new family so she didnt want me anymore. She did jave a new family when she found me. It was hard because I believed what my dad said for many years. Thankfully, i got a loving family with a new dad and 5 siblings.
@adaptableOcean4193
You dont have to love or respect the one who gives birth to you and leaves you. But you could always be thankful for the life that she gave you. However, a real parent is the one who loves and looks after you. And you must give all your love to her/him. Anyway Im glad that you're happy and grateful for where you are now in your life. :) <3
@freshman12 I am a lesbian who came out of the closet two years ago. I have found no women who is willing to start any kind of relationship, so I have realized that lesbians are very shy and repressed. That is bad news for anyone who wants to start a relationship. So now I have given up on having a partner and will spend the rest of my life sharing my experiences with other people. The problem is no one believes me, and no one tries to help me. That is my unique experience.
Of course, Idk how you feel but still I try to understand your problem and I feel bad that you have such an experience. First of all I'd say things like, you should try to see different people and their situations that are just like yours or worse. Compare yourself with them so that you could easily cope up with certain realities. *Metaphorically speaking*, you should have an exit door in your mind to accept/overcome certain realities. If you don't do then you may not be able to cope up with them and you would end up being depressed. Infact nothing is permanent. You came alone in this world and you would also go back alone without even taking anything with you. So you don't have to be sad for what you don't have. Be grateful for what you have. Always expect the unexpected. It is what it is. Now, try to mingle with a lot of new good people on your way in life. When you do that, maintain good relationships with them. There must be good number of majority of lesbians around you. And eventually you might end up finding someone who is best for you ❤️. Keep up with doing things that makes you busy and happy. That way you can't loose your energy and give up on your hope ❤️. Don't worry be happy 😊. Everything's going to be alright.
@freshman12 I have given up. I have found no one like me - I am willing to start dating and no one else is. I guess there are women out there who would like me but they are too few - maybe one in a thousand I figure. Women have been a complete disappointment to me. I still want a girlfriend but hope that I will find a way to get over the bitterness I now feel towards them Has anyone else experienced this?
@bestKite8488
Hey, how have you been? Just relaxx right! Let it be aside for a while and why dont you focus on other things that you like and work on it to achieve them or so?
@freshman12 I think you are right. I should just get on with my life. Living like this is very much like being in the closet - you know what you are capable of but are not acting on it. However I never thought that life would be like this after you come out of the closet. Same situation - just a different feeling, that's all. Maybe it's hard for you to understand how I feel. I still would like to meet someone but feel that now I must be cold so I will match with them. So much like being in the closet - I used to turn women down, now I must act cold again like I did then. Strange what life will do to you.
@bestKite8488
Yeah you're right maybe I can't understand how you feel, just like I told you already about it in the beginning. What else can I say? Me looking for positivity here in this 7cups has become a part of my life too. So I'm not here to advice but just to say that no matter if you just got out of the closet or not, do what you can and keep going, survive. But please don't be something that hurts yourself or others bc it really doesn't have to be that way, does it? Also I assume that you are still young and you have a lot to hope, explore, achieve on your long journey in life. Good luck!!! 💪
@freshman12 a unique life experience🤔🤔 last year I got to see snow😁 it's soooo beautiful. It feels much different than I thought it would, I knew it would be cold, but I didn't think it would be soft and fluffy😍 I got to make tyre marks in the snow hehe!♿♿ And then my carer threw snowballs at me. 😂😂 it was so fun to go and be our in it, and touch it. And I loved sitting by the window watching the snow falling😍❤
