PL 101: Understanding Your Gifts and Strengths from the MBTI (Discussion 2)
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Hello Leadership Crew!
I have just gone through the introduction thread and read about all of you. If you havent yet introduced yourself, then please stop by and share a little about yourself so we can get to know you. Im encouraged by all the great people that have joined. This should be a fun and enriching program!
Let me first zoom back and talk more broadly about your career and how we can help. When you become a leader on 7 Cups, we want you to find the work fulfilling. Fulfilling work means that it is:
a) work you are good at;
b) work that is interesting to you; and
c) work that solves an important problem or meets an important goal (Thiel, 2015).
The sweet spot is that blue area in the middle below.
If you do work that you are good at, but not interested in, then you wont do a great job. If you do work that you are interested in, but not particularly good at, then it wont be great work. If you do work that you are good at and interested in, but it isnt helping to solve an important problem, then we wont be a good fit for you. We need alignment on all 3 things. We work very hard at the beginning of your work with us to match your inherent strengths and interests with needs we have so that we can work together to solve problems that we all care about.
You have strengths â things that you are just really good at when compared with others. Operating out of your strengths feels good, is personally fulfilling, and enables you to hit flow states. As a result, you are much more effective and productive. Operating out of weaknesses is a drain. If you have to do work that you are not good at, then you wont be as effective. Doubling down on your strengths enables you to level up much faster and it helps 7 Cups make much more progress. Â
The next step becomes helping you find ways to identify your strengths, gifts or natural talents. You can learn some of this through self-observation - what do you seem especially good at? Are there things that just come natural to you that are more challenging for others? My wife, for example, is really good at writing; it just comes natural to her. Im pretty good at public speaking, whereas others find it more challenging.
Another way is to ask people you trust. You can say: What do you think Im good at? Or: what do you think are my top 1-3 strengths? Things that stand out to you about me? Note: only ask people you trust because sometimes people can give you feedback in a harmful rather than helpful way especially if they are not trustworthy.
For the purposes of this course, we are going to use personality tests to help you identify your strengths. Some of these are better than others; they are more reliable and have more research behind them. Broadly, we are using them here to help you begin to map out your strengths and to help you find ways where you can naturally excel here on 7 Cups, in your personal life, and in whatever career your are in or choose further down the road.
To start:
Go to this site here and take the test: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test
Next, in the thread below, answer the following questions:
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please Â
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
Last, when people interact with one another, it makes the course more enriching and it allows us to learn more about one another. In addition to posting in the thread, please also be sure to respond in a helpful and positive way to at least 3 other comments in this thread.
You can also ask any questions in this thread and well respond to them as well.
Very excited to kick this off with all of you!
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Hello to all the personalities :)
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters, please
INFJ-T (Advocate)
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
In addition to the strengths given below, the test showed something I’ve always wanted to improve on. That is being too sensitive and not understanding that it is not possible to always please everyone.
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
Insightful – being able to understand how someone is truly feeling and what they need.
Principled- having deep beliefs and not wavering in them. However, I’ve found that this can be a weakness too.
Altruistic- aiming to work towards the greater good and thinking about how our actions affect others.
Hiii @FawkesCare12
I'm INFJ-T too
It's nice to see another person with same personality.
@FawkesCare12
It's great to see people working for the greater good. Thank you.
@peacefulIris56
Likewise. Good to meet someone trying to make a difference in the world :)
@FawkesCare12 It sounds smart to work towards the greater good while thinking about how our actions affect others. Inspires harmony in one's own heart and in the world!
@FawkesCare12
I can relate to the sensitivity part! It's so important to check up with yourself and remember it's hard to please everyone and we should focus on the overall picture of helping people! :)
@GlenM
My personality type is ENFJ-T. The main things I learned about myself is that it’s normal that I have a fluctuating self-esteem. I also learned that I need to be very careful when it comes to my confidence since it can be lowered by the littlest things. Moreover, I learned I can influence new people I meet very well, both ways, so I need to be careful to bring happiness instead of sadness. On a side note, the last time I took this test, it gave me a different personality, but I feel this one matches me most, and time had passed from when I last took this test. My loving soulmate had made me aware of the 16 personalities test that I had completely forgotten about. When it comes to the last time I took the test, before this recent time, the last personality it gave me, MORE THAN ONCE, was ISFP-T, which was back in January 2021. And if you ask me, I’d say that the newest result matches me most. I made an account, and the good news is that even without Premium, you can still can more knowledge using that site.
According to the personality test, my top 3 strengths or gifts are: Tolerant, Reliable, and Charismatic, assuming that the other 2 strengths are part of the top 5.
For tolerant, based on what I read, it says that I am a good sport and that I won’t really be troublesome when someone disagrees with me.
For reliable, based on what I read, it says that I am someone to count on.
For charismatic, again based on what I read, it says that I pick up well on the behavior of an audience, in such a way that I can still express my own self while giving an audience what they need, and that I am a good imitator.
@IcicleSnown Hi Icicle! Similarly to you, I have previously taken the 16personalities test and got different results than I did today. I think this just goes to show how much our personalities can develop and grow over time! I have been taking the test every 7 - 10 months since 2017 and it is great to see how my personality has changed since then, and reading about all the different personality types is much fun.
@IcicleSnown
Hi there. I find your point about fluctuating self-esteem very interesting! Of course it is normal to have that fluctuation, and now you're in a place where you can accept it within yourself and use this knowledge to grow.
@GlenM
My personality type is: INFJ-T (Advocate)
The main things i got to know about myself that I'm of sensitive nature and Sometimes i can be overly sensitive. I find it hard to trust people and to open up. I hate chaotic environment and conflicts as i feel distressed and i always try to stop them. I would like to change myself and these traits to be a better person.
My top three strengths are:-
Altruism - I have always felt troubled by injustice and have taken stand for people facing unfairness and abuse.
My feeling nature - I can feel not only my emotions deeply but also those of other people and I'm quite sensitive to their pain and needs
Creativity - I think I'm a creative person and know how to fix problems.
@shallowWater7547
Hi Water!
I'm a fellow Advocate (INFJ-T) too. My personal take on why we are overly sensitive is because we are always thinking about others, and if our efforts go unappreciated, it can be hurtful. For the same reason, I think it’s hard for us to open up since there’s a large possibility that the response we receive, isn’t what we hoped for. These are just my thoughts though and can be different for each of us :)
I do think we have a lot of great strengths though and I’m happy to meet another INFJ!
@GlenM
1. What is your personality type?
My personality type is ISTP-T.
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
I learened that I am more introverted than I thought I was. I also learned that I am also heavily a thinker rather than a feeler which really surpried me.
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
Optimistic and energetic– I am cheerful and good-natured, rarely get stressed out, and I prefer to go with the flow.
Creative and Practical – I am very good with practical thasks, ideas come easily, and I love to put them into action.
Spontaneous and Rational – I can easily combine spontaneity with logic, I can switch mindsets to fit new situations with little effort and am very flexible.
@GlenM
My Personality Type
The Mediator
INFP-A
New Things I Learnt About Myself
Tbh, I really learnt alot about myself from the test, I am more of a peace loving person, at times, i can overthink, No plans/deadlines. But i always follow my heart, where it leads me. And i love doing things for people, making them smile, Though at times i can over-exert myself a bit. And i usually tend to avoid crowds. I am always comfortable alone.
My Top Strengths
1. EMPATHETIC
2. OPEN-MINDED
3 PASSIONATE & IDEALISTIC
Thanks for the great test <3
@DigitalKnight
I loved to see everything that you've learned about yourself from this test Knightt, I for one always enjoy being in a group chat with you
Kudos to all of your qualities and I admire each one of them!
1. What is your personality type?
My personality type is Turbulent Entertainer (ESFP-T)
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
Just from reading the Introduction of the Entertainer personality type I realised how much of a people-person I am! Entertainers love spending time with people and they get caught up in the excitement of the moment, sharing it with others as they do. Since the beginning of the Covid-19 pandemic I have spent a lot less time with other people due to government restrictions/guidelines, social distancing, self-isolation, etc., but restrictions in the UK have begun to ease recently, and I have been able to spend time with people I enjoy the company of, and I feel like this has really brought a lot more positivity into my life and given me a lot more energy than when the restrictions were more strict.
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them
One strength is excellent people skills. Entertainers are very talkative people and rarely run out of things to say in a conversation, which sounds just like me! Another strength is being original, commonly ignore traditions and instead experimenting with new styles and finding new ways to stick out in a crowd. Entertainers are also observant, meaning they focus on what is happening at a given moment, and notice real things and small changes.
@IcedEthan
Hello Ethan! I see that you are an ESFP-T, nice to meet one, one of my closest friends is one too! I am glad the restrictions at your place have started easing up a little. I am glad to hear this has brought positivity to your life. That makes me happy to hear!
Your strengths all seem super awesome! I am observant too so I am glad one of our strengths coincides perfectly. Nice to see you here!
You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have, more life.
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please
INFP-T
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
I learned that I am very empathetic and care aout others so much. I also learned that I am poetic and kind hearted. I feel that this describes me so much.
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
Empathetic-I care so much about people and I uderstand them more than others do, even if I have never walked in their shoes.
Generous-I uplift people a lot and give them praise
Open-minded-I don't judge anyone, ever.
@gentleLove04
INFPs are really sweet, I see them as total cinnamon rolls, smh. INFPs are very empathetic indeed. I am poetic too! I really find ENFPs and INFPs to be a lot similar to each other. Your strengths make you one very dependable listener!
It is lovely seeing you here!
You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have, more life.
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please.
My personality type is a turbulent defender (ISFJ-T).
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
I found out my values and personality can be categorized by a type and surprisingly accurate.
- I am a perfectionist and can be relied upon to get things done on time.
- I tend to underplay my accomplishments.
- I am kind and am often taken advantage of by others if I don’t stand up for myself.
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
My top 3 strengths according to this test are:
Supportive - Help others whenever possible to create a win-win situation. Tendency to choose empathy over judgement.
Reliable and patient - Meticulous and careful with my work to ensure accomplishment of the end goal.
Loyal and hard-working - Emotional attachment will be formed with the work they dedicate themselves to. Anything less than good and hard-work falls short of their own expectations.
@richuyulin
Hi lin! I am so thrilled to know that we are starting this program on the same date! I see that you're an ISFP, weirdly I have gotten that result too when I took the test but I have always been an ENFP. I hope the things that you learned about yourself really help you to make some good decisions and become much better! Your strengths sound so awesome - I believe these strengths make you a really great listener and a very good leader here in the community! It's nice seeing you!
You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have, more life.
lol, I am sorry, I meant ISFJ*
You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have, more life.
Hi lueur, glad we're starting the program on the same date as well. My results used to be different as well, though I don't remember what it was. It's interesting to see how our personalities change with time.
@GlenM
1. My personality type is-: INFJ-T( Advocate)
2. The main things I learned are -: I have Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging personality traits. I tend to approach my life with deep thoughtfulness and imaginations. This personality type may feel called to use their strengths – including creativity, imagination, and sensitivity – to uplift others and spread compassion. I get to know that this type of personality always wanted to help people. They're reserved but communicate in sensitive and warm way. 😊
3. Creative-: Advocate personalities enjoy finding the perfect solution for the people they care about. To do this, they draw on their vivid imagination and their strong sense of compassion. This can make them excellent counselors and advisors.
Principled-: People with the Advocate personality type tend to have deeply held beliefs, and their conviction often shines through when they speak or write about subjects that matter to them. Advocates can be compelling and inspiring communicators, with their idealism persuading even the hardest of skeptics.
Passionate-: Advocates can pursue their ideals with a single-mindedness that may catch others off guard. These personalities rarely settle for “good enough,” and their willingness to disrupt the status quo may not please everyone. That said, Advocates’ passion for their chosen cause is a key aspect of their personality.
@LovetoGod
I have a lot of friends who are an INFJ, good to see you here! You seem like a very thoughtful person who also likes to brood and really put in efforts with what you do. INFJs are super warm and welcoming! My friends are one of the best listeners out there too!
Your strengths sound awesome and I believe they will help you tremendously with the roles you take up for this program! Best Wishes, Love, it is lovely seeing you here!
You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have, more life.
@lueurspace
Thank you so much❤. And glad to know that there are lots of people with this personality and moreover they are your friends too😃
And your personality is also amazing and cool. You seems an energetic person who loves to learn and moreover you are an observant I really like this qualities. And wish you so much good luck for program too. I know you will do great 😃❤❤
1. What is your personality type? Include your 4 letters please.
My personality type is Campaigner ENFP-T, I have taken the test long back but for the sake of it, I took it again and it came out to be the same.
2. What were the main things you learned about yourself?
The things that stuck with me the most are knowing that I am a true free spirit, I may appear like an extrovert to people but at a party, rather than dancing and stuff, I think I’d be more interested to also get to know people, and just have a chat. I think I often tend to live in my head, map out how every interaction will work out. This can put me in a position where I get frustrated or feel disappointed if things don’t go the way I planned. There is this one particular line that resonates with me, “Campaigners are very emotional and sensitive, and when they step on someone’s toes, they both feel it.”
3. What are your top 3 strengths or gifts according to this test? Please describe them.
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Curious - I really like to know something. I am not the one who would like to think of something alone or by myself if it involves other people. I like to be on the go and involve as much input from others as I can while keeping an open mind to absorb all the information.
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Observant - I am very observant of my surroundings unless I am just spacing out. I tend to focus on patterns and how something is changing/staying the same.
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Energetic & Enthusiastic - I am full of energy and I am also very very excited to share anything with anyone who would listen (with keeping certain boundaries and professionalism, of course). I am very open to hear what other people think of what I share and in that way, my previous knowledge of the topic just grows even more!
You can't give your life more time, so give the time you have, more life.
@lueurspace
Hi Space! I think you've got an amazing personality, I'm glad to see how much you've learned about yourself from this test and how open you are about it, it really does take courage
I loved reading your qualities and the one I can certainly agree upon and have witnessed myself is your energy and enthusiasm. You provide wonderful Peer Support and host your sessions with so much positivity and warmth, love being a part of them!