Sun's Space 🌻
Hey hey lovely people coming across, I hope y'all are doing well.💛
From quite some time I've been wanting to create my own space around here, somewhere, I can be myself, share a little more of me and encourage others too.
In this thread, you can expect some inspiring words, quotes, appreciations and gratitude, sharing about my 7 cups journey, thoughts, insights, experiences in life, random musings etc. (Basically anything that comes to mind or I find on the internet lol)
Feel free to spend time here, upvote and reply if you'd like to, share your thoughts on the posts etc.🥰
More than welcome, as long as we keep this a mutually supportive, respectful, kind and safe space for everyone.
Thankyouuu so much for being here.
Hugs, Cookies and Good Vibes for everyone!❤
Humor "no good" and "all worrisome" this makes me laugh always lol!🤣😭
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
That is hilarious 😆, Sunshine! 🌞❤
But me hopes that it will be all good and all owlsome for youu 🤗❤
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
just hopping by for a gentle huggie wuggie attack for Sun! 😛 if okie 💜
@LoveMyMoonflowers
Aww hugs are always okie. *huggie wuggieeesss back Niibuddy* thank youuu!🤗💖
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
How’s Sunniiee today? :o 💜 how was your day? 💜 if it okie to ask friend 💕
@LoveMyMoonflowers
Hehe of course it's okie to ask, and soooo sweet of you to do so.💖
I'm doing alrighty. Today was pretty chill for the most part and lowkey boring but no major complaints. XD
How about you, Niibuddy?🤗
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Awwe that’s good Sunnie 💜 I’m glad you’re alrighty and I’m glad today went pretty chill 😛 we all have those boring days though I think.🤭🤭 that’s okay 💜 a chill, boring day would mean you’ve gotten some rest I hope (?) 💜 I hope sunnie bean’s making time to take care of themself/ do things they love. you deserve it 💜 *huggiiiieees*
Idk how I am lol. it’s fine though :') it’s almost 6 pm here, the day’s over for me too 💜 today mostly consisted of my lessons + a math test + studying/homework/ working on assignments. 💜 pretty tired already but I’m just idk, trying to keep myself distracted. not sure what i’ll be doing if i don’t occupy myself with schoolwork. :')
Eeeeeee I’m sorry that was long 🙈 and this is your forum space too. 😅
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Nuuu I think you’re right. 💜 “if boring days wouldn’t exist, fun days wouldn’t feel the same, because we wouldn’t know how to differentiate.” 💜 Tbh if the “normal” (my question - what *is* normal anyways? 😅) boring days didn’t exist, the fun days would be… normal. and boring. it would just be every day life and idk - we wouldn’t really savour it. 💜 (I wonder if the boring days are to be savoured too, though?) Idk maybe none of that made sense xD Nii buddy needs a new brain maybe 🤧
Omg a sprained ankle? Sunniee when I read that I just like… 😧🥺 *emergency healing huggies for you* eeeee that must hurt friend. :') especially if it’s real bad. 😞 awwe buddy I hope you heal up quick 💜 please do take care of yourself sunnie bean 🥺 If it’s okie to ask, what happened? :') 💜 (Of course you can answer if you’re comfy 💜 if not, that completely okie friend.)
Hehe yeah. Idk oftentimes I don’t allow myself to just think and be, to just process my emotions because emotions are just too messy. :') and complicated. and mmmm I’d rather just study and fill my brain with mathhh and historyy instead of… mmm. 😭 I just try to ignore everything else by focusing on studying.🤭🤭 lmao I do agree, staring at the ceiling can defo be funn-err than studying lol 😛
Nii friend stresses about schoolwork whether she is early or not. :') oh well. 💜 Idk Sun I’ll think about dinner lol :') *shrug*
wbu? :o 💜
@LoveMyMoonflowers
Haha exactly and good question, what even is normal xD I think normal looks and feels different for everyone, just something more usual, mundane, taken-for-granted kind, something we don't question or think about too often or too deeply.
"I wonder if the boring days are to be savoured too, though?"~ I think when we compare with other kind of days, and try to find a balance between them, it makes a difference. For instance the opposite of boring could be adventurous days xD and adventure can be the sweetest way of keeping it light-hearted xD sooo adventure can be both good and bad and if we compare the bad adventure day with a boring/ usual/ normal day then I think that "boring" becomes a safer space to stay in and in that moment, yes, it becomes *savor-worthy*.
Haha nooo, this brain is completely amazing lol but I do get that, still nuuu xD it made a lot of sense to me. We share a twin brain so that could be one reason why but so long it makes sense, why bother too much. 😛
Aww thank youu for the healing huggiees, Niibuddy. *huggies back* It's a little better today. Ummm more like a chronic thingy so a little used to it hehe, the sprain just made it worse xD but it's fine, and yes its okie to ask, you're too considerate always, I appreciate you lotsss.💖 I fell and sprained it! xD the ✨classic✨ way of spraining ankles, mhmm! :P
Aw I get that, emotions can be tooo ✨emotionalllll✨ sometimes (smh) and it is vv valid to want to avoid or distract yourself from not acknowledging, processing or feeling the more complicated and messy ones.
As much difficult it feels though, I think storing the emotions inside, letting them all pile up can be a lot more complicated and hard to make sense of. They have their way to sneak out, sometimes in ways, we don't like as much, messy ways, overwhelming ways, hard to process what's going on ways. (':
Nuu worries though, you can always take your time in feeling your feelings. Sometimes a little *break* from the emotions and from *feeling* things is vvv needed too. Our mind's way of telling us that is when it starts shutting off, I feel. :0
Me glad though, you investing time and effort in studying hehe. Studies are important as well. :P
Staring at the ceiling is probably my favorite-est thing to do. XD
Aw what makes you feel stressed about school work usually, Nii?
And smh a day already *-* what did you think of dinner then and tonight? :p 💖
@Angelx28
Lovely Angelll beingggg, where ya hiding?👀💖
You've been in my thoughts, dearieee. *hugs super tighttt*💖
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Testing something xD
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
It's cute! 🤗❤
The heart ❤ looks different, Sunshine! 🌞❤ ⊂(ᵔ◡ᵔ ⊂)❤
"Sometimes when there's a lot of chaos in the inner world, we tend to shut away from the outer world, for whatever teeny bit of peace we can find in that little in-between medium between the two. If this place feels safer for the time being, you can take your time and rest, inner world chaos and outer world-shenanigans can wait."🌞
Mhmmm, we'll (hopefully) elaborate on this in-between space latersss.👀💛
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
It is so true, Sunshine! 🌞❤ ⊂(ᵔ◡ᵔ⊂)
Thank you for this beautiful quote ୧⍤⃝💐 that remind us that it is okay to take time to rest & find the serenity 🤗❤
Me wrote down this quote ღ(´͈ ᵕ `͈ ღ)
"Sometimes when there's a lot of chaos in the inner world, we tend to shut away from the outer world, for whatever teeny bit of peace we can find in that little in-between medium between the two. If this place feels safer for the time being, you can take your time and rest, inner world chaos and outer world-shenanigans can wait."🌞 (©️ by Sunshine's 🌞❤ 2024)
"Children aren't coloring books. You don't get to fill them with your favorite colors."
Oooooooooffffffff! 🙌
If only more people understood or well, cared enough to consider. "Understanding" is a little too much to ask-of, sometimes, from some people. Mhm?! (':
What's far worse is when people change their "favorite colors" frequently and then blame the other person for it too. Or when, post coloring too, a certain "favorite color" doesn't look as good upto their liking and it's one of those "could do better" moments. The audacity.
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
That is so true, Sunshine! 🌞❤🤗❤ Thank you for this thoughtful reflection ୧⍤⃝💐❤
Oftentimes, parents want to force things on their children, criticizing their children, change their mind & then when things do not go the way they want, they blame others (their children) & take it out on the children. 🥺❤
Rarely does one come across a music lyric that isn't just metaphorical in nature. Someone had the freaking courage to throw 'em actual words together, for themself and for others, keeping the literal meaning intact. Only fair to appreciate these admirable ones too. <3
That's her by Georgiou Music!
Hard-hitting and emotionally-raw.
Content advisory: multiple mentions of sui***, SH, mental health, low self-esteem, loneliness throughout the song.
<3 *leaves hugs* <3
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Me read the word in the lyrics, those are so real 🥺❤ Thank you for writing ୧⍤⃝💐 about the song Sunshine! 🌞❤🥺❤(∩˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ∩)❤
Me likes the way the song show the struggles of the girl. And just like what the singer say, "I hope she gets help' , me hopes the girl gets help, know that she should be kind to herself, know her being in this world is important, & that she does not have to cope with all her struggles alone, because there are helps & there are hopes for her 🥺❤୧⍢⃝୨❤
*huggss tightttt*🤗❤
✨The sacred art of observing always but not absorbing everything.✨
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
That is a wise thought ٩( ᐖ )۶, Sunshine! 🌞❤o( ˶^▾^˶ )o❤
Me wrote it in the list of my favorite quote: 'The sacred art of observing always but not absorbing everything' ©️ 2024 by Sunshine 🌞❤