Parenting/ different decade's

Parenting style /

Unhappy Unsatisfied Wife

I am 33.

My husband is 60.

We have a kid together.

Kid's age 9 everything comes down to.

Pretty much 2 or 3 phrases in our house.

From my daughter

' I'm daddy's princess, daddy will say yes '

From my husband

' She is my daughter you

should have known

I was going to raise her to be a princess '

From myself to the both of them ' Just because you/she are born a girl doesn't mean this is the way it should be '

My daughter is beyond spoiled!!!

My daughter gets a BRAND NEW COACH BAG EVERY YEAR FOR SCHOOL at first I was Childish

I told my MIL her son had spent $172

On a backpack for our child to go to the FIRST grade!!

/ My MIL said he son could very well lose that Bag due to a teacher stealing it but also he choose to waste his paycheck on the bag.

I do not work.

Only my husband does.

That has become my husband's year year ritual.

NEW SCHOOL YEAR NEW COACH BAG

#1 I was sick to my stomach with that our daughter goes to a public school that's a slap in the face to the staff!!

I do have a side business I cook for elderly people and they pay me $16 per meal typically per person I make $128/$144 per person

Every week I cook for 8 people each week.

Tonight starting at bedtime/

*/*/* All this

I go to take my dog out for a walk.

I wash my husband's European car.

Come in take a shower

start a load of clothes

I go downstairs our daughter is still watching TV / 10 min to 11:00

I start telling her hey it's bedtime what have you been doing she argues

With me mom I was waiting for you.

Kid!!

It's late come on my husband is upstairs in the living room watching TV.

I start yelling at him because

While I'm */*/* all this he's being lazy.

NO I don't have a government job but I do EVERYTHING around the house.

- parent child /me

- keep up with summer school activities/me

- laundry/me

- feed animals/me

- groom animals/ me

- PUT fuel in OUR cars On FRIDAY Mornings / me

- clean the house/ me

- make beds / me

- wash bedding /me

- call in bills to be paid/ me

- grocery shopping/me

(For our house and my clients)

My husband will say I work ALL day so I don't need to do anything around the house.

My husband's job

starts 7 am / ends 7:30 pm

Monday-Saturday

My husband says it's the age gap for the way he parents VS my style of being hands on.

Don't throw money at her.

Spend time with her!!!

My daughter doesn't respect me.

If I discipline her she always threatens oh I'm going to call Daddy

and daddy will tell you it's not okay!