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Does anyone else do this??

MysteriousK24 February 9th, 2022

Possible trigger at one point mention of sa


So I can't stop obsessing over a person who use to be my friend. I ended the friendship because of drama they would start and the lies they would tell one of them being about being raped. After I ended the friendship I felt kind of bad I guess. I always think about them though, I see them all the time because they are dating a sibling of mine. I always wanna look up there Instagram and see how they are doing or sometimes I almost wanna break down and say sorry and try to be friends again. Idk why I do this I genuinely think they are a bad person and I have a strong dislike against them so why do I do this???

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WarmLightXO February 9th, 2022

@MysteriousK24

Hi friend, thanks for sharing this! I can hear your confusion and pain, that must be so difficult.

What you're describing makes sense, and is common. It seems like you miss them, not the person they are now, but the friendship that you used to have. Grief is really hard, and it's super valid to need time to work through it.

I hope this was helpful ๐Ÿ’š

Sending warmth ๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸŒฟ