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Self-Care: You Need To Be Able To Take Breaks as a Room Supporter/Moderator

ASilentBunny March 12th, 2023

Being a Moderator & Room Supporter can be incredibly rewarding and I truly admire their hard job! Keeping the chatrooms a safe place for everyone is not an easy job.

Our team works every day so hard being there for the users and moderating the rooms! I will never be able to thank them enough for what they are achieving within our wonderful community! Even tho being a Moderator or a Room Supporter can be really rewarding, sometimes it can be really stressful and tiring. From my personal experience, it’s not always easy participating in the rooms, welcoming everyone who joins while ensuring I haven’t skipped someone, encouraging members to engage in the conversation, maintaining a supportive and safe environment in the room and making sure that every single participant feels supported and comfortable. There will be times when the pressure gets too much and you might feel you need a break and that’s perfectly okay! In fact, it’s essential to take a self-care break every now and then! If you burn out you won’t be able to do your job properly and that’s not good for you and the community! Yourself should always be your first priority and if you want to do well in your role, you also need to ensure that you are taking good care of yourself. So, if you ever feel like you are in over your head, please don’t be afraid to take a self-care break and recover from burnout! We will definitely understand the reasons you need a break and we will all be here waiting for you to come back stronger and even more motivated!


You are the reason the group chats are safe and we have so many users participating in the rooms every day! Volunteers like you are what make 7cups a supportive and fabulous place to be! I understand that many of you have your own lives, families, jobs, school, responsibilities and many more and I can’t express how grateful I am to see you on this platform dedicating your time to making our chatrooms a better place for everyone! We are so thankful to have you in our team and we acknowledge the hard job you are putting in order to maintain a supportive and friendly environment in the group chats! However, if you feel like you are burning out, exhausting yourself, feeling pressured or you simply feel you want to take time to focus on yourself and/or other responsibilities, then it’s time for you to take a wonderful self-care break! We truly want you to be here and be part of our team, but at the same time, we want you to enjoy your role and your time while moderating the rooms!


As leaders, we are always by your side and if you ever need anything our chats are always open to you! If you ever need someone to talk to about your role or your duties as room supporter or moderator, please don’t hesitate to text me! I will be more than willing to listen to you and find a balance between your role here in 7cups and in your life outside! If you ever feel you need a break, I am rooting for you! You truly deserve that break because you are working so hard!


Note: Before taking a self-care break please inform one of the Leaders (ASilentObserver, Lou73, ASilentBunny) so we can be aware of your break, update your status, reassign you the badge and wait for you to come back patiently and support you!


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ASilentBunny OP March 12th, 2023

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Lou73 March 13th, 2023
Thanks for the post @ASilentBunny self-care is really important and like @Tabbycat97 said 'you can't pour from an empty cup'. My DMs are always open if anyone needs to chat 💙🦋
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TabbyCat97 March 13th, 2023

@Lou73

❤️❤️❤️

You're wonderful


Tabby

ASilentBunny OP March 13th, 2023

@Lou73 Thank you for offering your help Lou! Self-care breaks are really important for leaders too!

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heathermarie95 March 12th, 2023

thank you. going through a break up. after 8 months of not putting myself, i want to be able to now

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calmMango9611 March 12th, 2023

@heathermarie95 So very sorry to hear that heather. It is very important to remember, our needs too. I feel, we sometimes forget this, which is understandable, because we care so much about the members and this site. That is why I take the weekends off from here. Maybe cut back some. You're only one person. You matter to us. This website, will always be here. So no worries. We ❤️ you heather. If you need please pm one of the team leaders listed in the post. I hope you come back, when you are ready to come back. We will welcome you with open arms. Please take really good care of yourself, heather.

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heathermarie95 March 13th, 2023

thank you 💜

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calmMango9611 March 13th, 2023

@heathermarie95 You are very welcomed.

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ASilentBunny OP March 13th, 2023

@heathermarie95 I am really sorry to hear about the breakup heather and I can't imagine what you are going through right now, but remember yourself should always be your first priority and it's totally okay if you need a break! We all do need one every now and then! You got this and we are so proud of you and thankful to have you in this community!

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heathermarie95 March 13th, 2023

thank you so much

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TabbyCat97 March 12th, 2023

@ASilentBunny


Sayyy Yayyy to self careeeeee!!!


You cant pour from an empty cup, take care of yourself first :') ♡


Tabby

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ASilentBunny OP March 13th, 2023

@TabbyCat97 Tabby! That was gorgeous to read and you are so right! You can't pour from an empty cup! Well said!

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March 13th, 2023

Hey @ASilentBunny! Appreciate the reminder. Self-care is important for everyone on the team!!

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ASilentBunny OP March 13th, 2023

@richuyulin Self-care is indeed so important and we want to ensure that everyone is doing well! Thank you!

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