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On buildung a community

Aputik September 22nd, 2023

Hi everyone,


Lately I've bugged with a question in my head where I feel I could use some input/thoughts/ideas/doubts from all of you =)


What is a community and how do you build one?

(this really feels like the right place to be asking these questions!)


For the last couple of years I felt like I had one in the new place I'm living but all of a sudden it has dropped. Since I live far from home and my family is spread all over the world it's hard to get this community feeling back.


I red an article saying there are 4 ingredients to building up a community:

- shared history (I guess time spent together doing meaningful things)

- presence (being there, commitment, short term)

- permanence (more of a personal commitment to help and ask for help in the long-term)

- shared imagination (I belive that's sharing a common goal).


As you may have notice I still have some doubts about what it all really means and how can this be paired up with a nomadic lifestyle I had until now.


Also, these are all good intentions but what do you do with the bad apples that you inevitably find along the way?


Big hughs!



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Tinywhisper11 September 22nd, 2023

@Aputik gives you a hug back ❤ I'm not sure what to say it suggest. I've never been part of a good community except 7 cups so sorry I'm not able to help. But I'm able to give you a bigg comforting hug