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Open Discussion on Muting!

User Profile: Laura
Laura March 12th, 2015


Hi everyone!

As muting is a hot topic around here, I wanted to start an open conversation about it!

You all have been using the mute button to better curate your experience at 7 Cups! That is what the mute button was designed for. HOORAY :)

--------> Our team of dedicated mentors and moderators have the ability to execute a "moderator mute." When you receive a moderator mute, this is what should happen:

1) User is violating one of the community/chatroom guidelines

2) Depending on the nature of the comment, a moderator will give a warning to the individual. A warning should look like this:

?Hey XX, your behavior is currently in violation of chat room guidelines number X, could you go review this guideline??

3) The warning should be professional and kind.

If you are the recipient of a warning, no worries. It happens. It's all about how you react. It is okay to receive a warning, to learn from it and to grow. If you receive a warning, no big deal! Go take a look at the guidelines and come back to the chat room to continue the conversation. Accept it as a moment of growth!

4) If you continue to engage in the behavior, another warning may be given. If the behavior continues, you will be moderator muted.

5) A moderator mute will last 24 hours. Once 24 hours passes, you will be free to enter the chat rooms again.

6) You can receive up to 3 moderator mutes. Once you receive 3, you will receive a global mute, which can last up to one year.

@heather & I are constantly reviewing the mute reports & here are some helpful things you should know:

- There is no such thing as a ?hacker or troll mute?

- If a mute is unfair, we can release it.

- Overwhelmingly, our moderators are very careful with the moderator mute and use it sparingly. Incoming reports are fair.

------> What should you do if you receive a mute?

If you are muted, no big deal. It happens. Feel fortunate for the opportunity to grow and learn from your behavior. Take some time to review the chat room guidelines and try to better understand how to improve behavior in this space.


------->Moderator muting also helps to remove trolls quickly and protect the space. We are very very luck to have such a wonderful group of moderators. Please join me in thanking them for helping to keep our space safe!

------->Let's all take ownership of our own mutes and use them as personal growth moments! A mute is reflection of your personal behavior and only you are in control of that. Let's change the culture of muting.

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User Profile: Ren
Ren June 28th, 2016

@Laura This was really helpful and nicely put, thank you so much Laura for guiding this community and providing warm and compassionate ways to communicate with each other, you are lovely as usual, and very awesome indeed.

User Profile: HuskyMoon
HuskyMoon September 25th, 2016

@Laura can i ask a question... i have been muted by a mod after 3 warnings saying i was engagin in conflict while my only message on the chat was "i'm anxious about a friend". i have emailed the community and sent various forms.. i hope something can be done. also i found out that making another account doesn't work and even my listener doesnt work. seems like i have been muted for al my accounts

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User Profile: Laura
Laura OP September 28th, 2016

@HuskyMoon

That is frusstarting! Have you been able to adjust this?

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User Profile: HuskyMoon
HuskyMoon November 25th, 2016

no. i reported the mod and even sent a letter. they just told me that i was engaging in conflict. no one helped me and i feel like i was treated very unfairly... it's a shame that 7cups does nothing to help us@Laura

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October 10th, 2016

@Laura Can we have someone , preferably a member, who can look after (supervise) the "modding" by the moderators , so that guests dont feel that listener moderators are blinded by powers as I have seen many of them say in recent times ... Just a suggestion laugh

User Profile: Anoutherrandomusername
Anoutherrandomusername March 16th, 2017

I got muted for no reason idk y

User Profile: GenerousTortoise15
GenerousTortoise15 May 8th, 2017

I dont care how old this is:

[edited by Annie, language] MODS.

[edited by Annie] THEM.

also, un-mute me plz.

AND [edited by Annie] MODS!!!

User Profile: attackhelicopter2002
attackhelicopter2002 May 9th, 2017

i have been muted 2 times, 24 hours already have passed and im still muted this time, this is the second time i get muted, is this normal or should i already have been unmuted?

User Profile: CrucioLion9
CrucioLion9 September 12th, 2017

IDK why im muted help me

User Profile: Aiesh
Aiesh October 25th, 2017

Just got mute from mod cause he have better reputation than me gave me warning when he wasnt visible or active then i said he cant so that he gave me mute his name is Halogen and he gave warnings today before to 2 other members cause he had his reasons

https://m.imgur.com/sltVCyY?r

User Profile: Kate
Kate October 25th, 2017

Bumping up this discussion