A message to group mods~ IMPORTANT
I mentioned this in the rooms earlier, but I thought that it was too important just for the people who were there to hear it. I think it is very important that we remember that when we are in a member room, that we are wearing a badge that shows that we are a leader, so we are expected to act as such. Members and other listeners are going to be looking up to us when we are in the rooms, so it is our responsibility to make sure that we are treating everyone fairly. It doesn't look well when a member and a group mod get into a public argument. Sometimes it can be hard when a member points us out, but this is where your leadership comes in, and you have to take the higher ground and step away, swap with another mod or call for backup.
Something else that I feel we should avoid is openly disagreeing with each other as moderators in the room. I am not saying we are all going to always agree, but I am saying that if this is done openly, it takes away from the support that goes for members, and arguments between mods can be confusing for the members, especially when it is about a rule. Also, I feel that if you are a new to modding on 7cups and a mod states something in the room about a rule, you shouldn't challenge them in the room. Not only is it disrespectful and arrogant to someone with more experience, but it just like I stated before takes away from the purpose of the room.
One more thing, don't assume that you can be laid back in a room just because it is mostly chit chat or the room is not a "support" room. In all of the rooms, you are expected to be professional, supportive. Basically, when you are logged into your listener account, and you are in a room, you are there to support and to be an active listener. It's okay to be silly, yes, but you shouldn't be afraid to be a mod, either. You have to enforce the rules.
Before I wrap up this long forum post, I want to add, for your first few weeks as a new mod, and sometimes even more than that, you really should mod with your group mod buddy. I know that it is not mandatory, but it really helps you improve and can help make sure you stay a mod on 7cups!
Alright, I think I have held your time enough, and to those who actually read my whole message, thank you.
- BurningEmber.
Wow @BurningEmber. This thread was much needed . Thank you for this.
I strongly agree that mods shouldn't disagree with each other as Mods we are a team 
We all have different perspectives regarding something and if like two mods in pm continue disagreement then the questions can be asked in Group Mod Zone if I am not wrong .
Thirdly I feel there are new Mods. It takes time for new mods to adjust to such role.In giving the application it's easy but to maintain the position it takes time. So I feel they should contact mod buddy or any mod can help them .Mods never hesitate to help
Fourthly when we are in trouble it's best to have other mod around. As there is other mod to handle situations. We do get triggered but that's the point where we need to follow our role. It's best to be either out of such situation and call a mod if suppose no mod there try deep breathe in
Thank you for such a sweet reminder
Tagging@Becca9345 , @XiTalksSoft, @TheHearter,
@BurningEmber
Thank you for your awesome post! I would like to add a few concerns we can all help with.
Many of us announce in all available rooms that we are about to begin a discussion and ask people to join us. Though I like to see those posts, PLEASE be mindful that discussions may already be going on in some rooms. Checking the discussions in progress prior to posting is a tip I find useful. Take a second to check for a blue discussion banner in each room before announcing your discussion and please skip over rooms that are only open during discussions such as the Events or Support Rooms. Members are often confused when seeing other discussion announcements during ongoing discussions.
Concerning Sub-Community Support discussions- though we appreciate a moderator's willingness to help out, please do not post in these guided discussions unless you are trained in those areas. If you'd like to join in for your own benefit, you are most welcome, but if you have a Moderator badge, it's less 'intimidating' to members if you use your member account. Some of our Sub-Communities deal with very sensitive topics. Popping into a discussion room to say, 'Hey everyone! I know it's a rough time for you right now, but you'll be better soon!' is not helpful, though we understand that your intentions are to be supportive.
Thank you, everyone, for your cooperation and your efforts as moderators. You are all much appreciated! 
Tagging @RumpleSteeleSkin @dancingRainbow45
@BurningEmber @TheAsh
Thank you both for your insights! I agree that some of our 'regulars' may be known to one of us and if given a chance, they drop their guard and become awesome supporters. It's important for 2 mods or 2 leaders to be in 1 on 1 with each other so we can communicate and support everyone! 
