Move on
We lose that one person in our lives that just changes our entire lives that rearranges our entire lives we get to grieve for 5 seconds their lives or sometimes they're not even allowed to show it or sometimes we don't want to show it because I feel like that unmasked us and it shows our emotions and it shows different side of us and I don't think that we should we get 5 seconds to grieve and then everybody's like oh my God I can't believe this person is still talking about this person's death and it's not fair we get 5 seconds to grieve and then we have to move on that's all people expect from us like well that person died move on with your life and it's not fair it's not fair at all how are we supposed to grieve when people are telling us to move on.
@friendlyShade2009 it's not fair at all <3 How do you move on from all those memories, those time spend together, the shared laughter and secrets or the comfort of that familiarity.. Telling someone to move on after a loss that big is like telling someone whose house just crumbled to quickly build it all back up.. maybe with time we can find new pieces to put it back together but it won't ever be the same and we are allowed to feel the difference and the pain.
Nobody has the right to tell you to move on, it's your loss and you can take as much time as you need to grieve and heal. Whoever decided there's a time limit on grief must not have felt a loss so devastating that their soul felt paralysed. Please know that you're not alone<3
