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Lost my baby girl

greenTangerine5999 July 16th, 2023

Yesterday I lost my baby girl she was hit by a big truck with her friend going out for lunch with her friend mother and I got a call phone yesterday amd that she bad passed away and I don't know if I can be OK she was only 6 years old

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou July 16th, 2023

@greenTangerine5999

Oh dear, I'm so so sorry for your loss. It's hard to imagine how heart broken you must be losing your daughter. 😢

Please don't worry about being okay, you're allowed to not be okay and to feel as you do; you're allowed to take as much time and space you need to process the accident, acknowledge your emotions and grieve your little one. ❤

I know words aren't going to make much sense at this time so I'm *offering many comfy hugs* to keep you company.

Plus, sending lots of love and strength your way. ❤

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greenTangerine5999 OP July 17th, 2023

Thanks you so much she was my everything my world without her I don't know what I'm going to do but thanks for saying that I'm trying to take time but my husband think I should just let go now but I can't I try talking to him but he dont listen

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou July 17th, 2023

@greenTangerine5999

Im sorry to hear he's been trying to rush you. Sometimes people in an effort to problem-solve try to shush our emotions, making us feel invalidated and rushed to heal/ move on.

Different people also have different ways to cope with loss, some shut down and "move on" on the surface, some take their time to process and heal, make peace with the loss at their pace, you're allowed to grieve the way *you* feel most inclined towards.

You don't need to "move on" though, you've lost someone precious to you, your heart hurts and you're allowed to feel the pain you're experiencing, no matter how challenging it is, this pain has love written all over it and you're allowed to love, you're allowed to keep the love within you; this love, the love for your daughter, I hope it keeps you warm on the coldest nights as you grieve.

Sending more love your way! <3

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Saly33 July 29th, 2023

@greenTangerine5999

I send you hugs, support and prayers so that God fills your heart with peace, reassurance, strength and patience to get through these difficult days...

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IndigoWhiteDenim July 29th, 2023

@Saly33

Such kind and powerful words. I couldn't agree more.

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IndigoWhiteDenim July 29th, 2023

@greenTangerine5999

I can only share my deepest condolences for your loss ma'am. Being a mom myself and having a nine year old daughter as well I can't imagine how it would feel losing her. Was the truck driver drunk? How did it all unfold?

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greenTangerine5999 OP July 29th, 2023

Yes the driver was drunk and thanks everyday I still miss her

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HealingTalk August 5th, 2023

@greenTangerine5999

We all understand how immensely painfully sad you might be feeling.

This should have never, ever happened.

We are all at your disposal to listen to you and support you.

You might share your feelings at our Check-Ins: https://www.7cups.com/forum/grief/General_2528/GriefLossCheckInAugust1st8th2023_310142/

And subscribe to our community to stay in touch (by clicking "+Join" button to the right here: https://www.7cups.com/forum/grief/ )

You are our first priority, and we will stay by your side to support you in the best possible ways we can.

My name is Marcelo. You can message me from here: https://www.7cups.com/@HealingTalk

I look forward to seeing you around here to share, vent, seek support and keep us updated on how you are feeling.

I will light a candle for your baby girl.

Marcelo.

fufsd August 31st, 2023

Praying for your lost