Lost my baby girl
Yesterday I lost my baby girl she was hit by a big truck with her friend going out for lunch with her friend mother and I got a call phone yesterday amd that she bad passed away and I don't know if I can be OK she was only 6 years old
@greenTangerine5999
Oh dear, I'm so so sorry for your loss. It's hard to imagine how heart broken you must be losing your daughter. 😢
Please don't worry about being okay, you're allowed to not be okay and to feel as you do; you're allowed to take as much time and space you need to process the accident, acknowledge your emotions and grieve your little one. ❤
I know words aren't going to make much sense at this time so I'm *offering many comfy hugs* to keep you company.
Plus, sending lots of love and strength your way. ❤
Thanks you so much she was my everything my world without her I don't know what I'm going to do but thanks for saying that I'm trying to take time but my husband think I should just let go now but I can't I try talking to him but he dont listen
@greenTangerine5999
Im sorry to hear he's been trying to rush you. Sometimes people in an effort to problem-solve try to shush our emotions, making us feel invalidated and rushed to heal/ move on.
Different people also have different ways to cope with loss, some shut down and "move on" on the surface, some take their time to process and heal, make peace with the loss at their pace, you're allowed to grieve the way *you* feel most inclined towards.
You don't need to "move on" though, you've lost someone precious to you, your heart hurts and you're allowed to feel the pain you're experiencing, no matter how challenging it is, this pain has love written all over it and you're allowed to love, you're allowed to keep the love within you; this love, the love for your daughter, I hope it keeps you warm on the coldest nights as you grieve.
Sending more love your way! <3
Thanks you so much it make Me feel a bit better you understand how I'm feeling its hurt and I can't move on just yet she just die I miss her so much she was my first baby girl
@greenTangerine5999
I send you hugs, support and prayers so that God fills your heart with peace, reassurance, strength and patience to get through these difficult days...
@Saly33
Such kind and powerful words. I couldn't agree more.
@greenTangerine5999
I can only share my deepest condolences for your loss ma'am. Being a mom myself and having a nine year old daughter as well I can't imagine how it would feel losing her. Was the truck driver drunk? How did it all unfold?
Yes the driver was drunk and thanks everyday I still miss her
@greenTangerine5999
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This should have never, ever happened.
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I will light a candle for your baby girl.
Marcelo.
Praying for your lost