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User Profile: Beechie
Beechie June 20th, 2024

I don't want to move on from breakup, because moving on will mean being alone ans I don't know that...

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User Profile: fairmindedOcean734
fairmindedOcean734 July 28th, 2024

@hardworkingBeechwood6063


Healing from the loss of a loved one is a difficult and non-linear journey. With time, you'll learn to live with the pain and eventually accept the ending. During this process, you'll rediscover yourself, learn to love yourself, and focus on your own well-being.


Sharing a strong bond with someone is beautiful, but it's even more beautiful to find peace in the present moment. Allow yourself to cry, talk about your feelings, and process your emotions, but never question your worth. Remember, that relationship doesn't define your worth; you deserve love, respect, and care regardless.


I understand your pain, having gone through a similar experience. I was engaged for 2 years to my fiancé/boyfriend of three years, whom I met in 2020. We had an incredible connection, and he was a kind and caring partner. However, our relationship ended abruptly when he broke up with me via Zoom call, citing a lame excuse. To make matters worse, he started dating someone else just 10 days later and blocked me and my family without even reaching out.


It's been five months since the breakup, and it's been tough. We used to text each other constantly, but now he's no longer in my life, not by my choice but by his. I still love and care for him, and I've forgiven him. But here's the important part: let's be gentle with ourselves. We had a life before this relationship, and we can have a life after it. Healing takes time, and some days will be better than others. Allow yourself to feel your emotions, and remember that you will be okay. Things always work out in the end.