Breakup

@hardworkingBeechwood6063 

Sometimes, relationships go through rough patches and misunderstandings. If you believe that there's still love and potential for a healthy, happy relationship, it might be worth reaching out to your ex. Consider having an open and honest conversation about your feelings and the challenges you both faced. Communication is key, and sometimes, revisiting those discussions with a fresh perspective can lead to healing and growth.

Also, remember that every relationship requires effort and understanding from both sides. Reflect on what went wrong and what could be improved. If both of you are willing to work on those issues together (and hugging, remember we spoke about this yesterday), there's a good chance you can rebuild a stronger, more resilient bond.

Remember, it's okay to be vulnerable and express your true feelings. Wishing you all the best, and I hope everything works out for both of you!

I understand all too well about how that feels. Loosing the one person that made you feel like you weren't alone anymore and going to the same place you were before, alone. But you've gained the pain and lessons from your past experiences. It's bittersweet going back to all the fun memories together.

@hardworkingBeechwood6063 break up also means available for better 

You are not alone. What do you think you have lost that is important to your sense of self?

@hardworkingBeechwood6063

 It may be good to be alone, the problem is never to be alone, but to be good and at peace with yourself, and that's the difficult part

I'm also going through a breakup. it's been painful, but I understand my life is better without him. For some time be extra nice to yourself and learn how to love your life and yourself not another person.

@hardworkingBeechwood6063

Breakups are really hard to go through and I’m sorry you are experiencing this.  It takes time to grieve when you lose someone whether it’s because of death or the end of a relationship.  I hope you are allowing yourself the time you deserve to grieve your relationship.

~Kristy

Beginning to realize there’s no quick replies to these posts at the same time it’s good to know there’s others out there going through the same break up pains as me. The hardest part for me is that she was my best friend  for  9 months. We could talk for hours night and day, every single day. I'm not a big  talker but we would joke and talk for hours. And that is leaving such a big  hole. I  can't seem to be able to fill.  Anyway... It's like a  death of my  best friend  on top of the  fact that I love her still. 

I also don't want to move on because I don't understand why are we breaking, we love eachother, and there were no problems, so I really can't understand... + I don't know how to start everything again from scratch alone, I don't want to leave the life we had together..

@hardworkingBeechwood6063 can relate