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What is something you wish you could say to your past self?
Sintix April 14th, 2018

"Hold on. You'll find your purpose."

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plumField5702 April 15th, 2018

As you go on a particular phase in your life, figure out inside you what you need and what makes you happy by being alone and not letting people conceal your true heart's desires.

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Sintix OP April 15th, 2018

@plumField5702 I love this! Always put you first. I know a lot of times people think you're selfish because of this thought, but we're living for us. We can't live for everyone else. This is our life, we need to take that into consideration and care more for ourselves.

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plumField5702 April 16th, 2018

@Sintix

Thank you. You're right and you can't give out something to anyone if you haven't learned to give something for yourself.

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Sintix OP April 18th, 2018

@plumField5702 Absolutely!

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blissedNblessed April 15th, 2018

IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

NONE OF IT IS YOUR FAULT.

I AM SO SORRY THAT YOU WERE REPEATEDLY HURT.

YOU DID NOT DESERVE IT.

I AM SO SORRY THAT NO ONE PROTECTED YOU.

YOU DESERVE TO BE PROTECTED.

I AM THE ADULT NOW AND I WILL LOVE AND PROTECT YOU.

IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

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April 15th, 2018

@blissedNblessed yes, you deserved to be protected
Sintix OP April 15th, 2018

@blissedNblessed You very much so deserve protection. Always. Whatever pain you took on, do not EVER blame yourself. heart

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Totheskyandbeyond April 16th, 2018

It's ok. You're doing what you can and that's enough. You're on your way.

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Sintix OP April 16th, 2018

@Totheskyandbeyond Very good. Love this! laugh

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Totheskyandbeyond April 16th, 2018

@Sintix It's nice you liked it.

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Sintix OP April 16th, 2018

@Totheskyandbeyond It's very motivational and yet simple.

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tluper6491 April 17th, 2018

Talk to her. You'll never find anybody else who will even look at you twice.

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Sintix OP April 18th, 2018

@tluper6491 I definitely understand this. I do wish I could've warned myself. I know it's extremely hard.

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inventiveHouse2965 April 18th, 2018

What she did to you is not a sign of you being a bad person. It is a sign of what kind of person SHE is...She is projecting onto you and you don't deserve ANY of what she did to you. You deserve a positive, uplifting life with nurturing and love.

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Sintix OP April 18th, 2018

@inventiveHouse2965 Absolutely! You deserve to be happy, truly so. Don't let anyone hold you back from that. heart

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Tina167 April 19th, 2018

Don't be so impulsive have patience with yourself all this will make sense eventually

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Sintix OP April 19th, 2018

@brightWords18 Definitely a good one here. It's always so hard being patient. heart

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reliableSpring6221 April 19th, 2018

Never trust your so called relatives

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Sintix OP April 19th, 2018

@reliableSpring6221 I'm sorry for whatever situation you went through. I understand this, sadly. It's far from fun.

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Tinycupcake April 19th, 2018

It's okay to forgive yourself

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Sintix OP April 19th, 2018

@Tinycupcake Absolutely! smiley
tluper6491 April 19th, 2018

@Tinycupcake I wish I knew how.

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staysafexoxoilysm April 19th, 2018

You'll be happier and you shouldn't have wasted time on certain people who are toxic.

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Sintix OP April 19th, 2018

@staysafexoxoilysm I'm still learning this, aha. Preach! heart

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LadyInSilence April 19th, 2018

I wish I said to myself past

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Sintix OP April 19th, 2018

@LadyInSilence Moving on is such a hard thing to do. This is definitely a really good thing to say, yes. heart

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