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A chance to forgive yourself

carefulWest6083 October 3rd

Share what you like to be forgiven and be glad to be alive.


I just read:

"Today all mistakes will be allowed and forgiven. Today is a day for being glad to be alive."


Let's try to forgive our mistakes and be glad to be alive.



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eternalHeart2708 October 7th

I loved reading this 🤍

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carefulWest6083 OP October 7th

@eternalHeart2708

Thank you, friend. All the best to you :)

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Dandelioness77 October 9th

@carefulWest6083

Thank you for the thought-provoking post. I would like yo be forgiven for not taking care of my mental health while raising my children as a single mom. I tried as hard as I could with the limited mental tools that I had. I just didn't realize my issues were bigger than me. My daughters are now adults and history is repeating itself. 

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carefulWest6083 OP October 10th

@Dandelioness77

And thank you for this honest and open response. All the best to you and your daughters.

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winterbreeze0405 October 9th

@carefulWest6083 forgive me for being me. i am tired too.

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carefulWest6083 OP October 10th

@winterbreeze0405

We can only be ourselves and being you is good. I'm tired too. Thank you for the interaction and all the best.

joiejeveux November 7th

Same..

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carefulWest6083 OP October 17th

Commenting for a chance to revive this post :)

calico1612 October 19th

i’d like to forgive myself for not being good enough.

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carefulWest6083 OP October 19th

@calico1612

I know it's just terrible to feel not good enough but I want to say that you are good enough and I am good enough. We are good enough and thank you for your interaction.

joiejeveux November 7th

Ditto

joiejeveux November 7th

Ditto

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thlss October 19th

@carefulWest6083

although not a mistake but i shame myself for having random thoughts. i forgive myself for all the thoughts i have, my thoughts are not a reflection of me, i am just witnessing them 

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carefulWest6083 OP October 20th

@thlss

Yes. It's not a mistake and we are not defined by random or intrusive thoughts. Those kind of thoughts are best ignored.

All the best to you :)

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Slayer22 October 19th

I cannot forgive myself, but I hope God can. I gave them rights to my mind, body and soul. I gave up my spiritual sovereignty when I made deal. Now I am bound to my master. Doing his bidding.

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carefulWest6083 OP October 19th

@Slayer22

I am touched by your honesty and bravery and I want to say that indeed God is the most merciful and He forgives everything.

I'm reminded of this:

Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of God. Indeed, God forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.". Koran [39:53].

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Stewart25 October 19th

@carefulWest6083 This was very encouraging

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carefulWest6083 OP October 20th

@Stewart25

Right back at ya :)

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Likeza October 19th

I’d like to forgive myself for being unfaithful in my relationship…. It happened last year and i went to therapy to deal with everything that was going on in my life at the time… i never told him about it and he never found out …recently i had this urge of just repeating the same mistake, and then i broke up with him because it felt like I was just hurting him and we were in a very long distance relationship…… i might have ruined the best thing that had happened to me in my whole life but it’s best to let the person go before you destroy them ….

i wish i could forgive myself for failing me and my partner….

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carefulWest6083 OP October 23rd

@Likeza

I think it takes a lot of courage to be this honest.

Give yourself time. Forgiveness is a process that is worth undertaking.

Thank you for the response.

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MiserableMehereen26 October 20th

@carefulWest6083 I would like to be for given by my father. I misbehaved with him in his last days. I will  never be able to forgive me for this but I hope he'll forgive me🙂

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carefulWest6083 OP October 21st

@MiserableMehereen26

And I would say never despair of forgiveness even from yourself, time can heal anything.

Thank you for your response and all the best.

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