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m1705 September 23rd

Hi, so next year my boyfriend is going to uni. I’m really worried and anxious about it, what if he finds somebody new? Or acts all nice to me but doing devious things behind my back like cheating and being unloyal? How do I overcome this? I dont know what to do.

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CouragousDragon0742 September 30th

Hi @m1705nice to meet you! ^^

The future is a thing we keep constantly thinking about and I know it can be very overwhelming. I see why you're worrying so much. It will change some things and your daily routines.

Our relationships are always built on a certain amount of trust and thinking about all the bad situations that could come, is something we can feel insecure about. I can understand why you feel like this. I hope you two have a good strong bond and will get through this well. I think being worried is completely normal.

But consider the possibility that everything will be fine and work out in a perfect way. That not much changes and you two can always trust each other. Because not only the bad thoughts could come true but also our dreams and wishes.

I truely wish you the best and I'm always here to provide an open ear to you, if you want to talk about it more. Feel free to message me and get t hings off your chest.

Don't worry, you're not alone and everyone here will support you the best they can. That's why we are here.

Take care, I hope it will be fine and maybe allow yourself to have a little thought of hope sometimes.

You're awsome, keep going! 😘

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m1705 OP October 2nd

Thank you so much! ❤️

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MZhang October 3rd

Hi🥰Yes if I were you I would feel the same way...Very anxious! But how about you thinking in a more positive way that once you guys overcome the challenge that shows your love is strong. If unfortunately things happen he might not be the right one. Maybe just take it as a challenge or even a gift life offers to test how strong this love is. I'm pretty sure you guys will be fine❤️❤️Hope you feel better thinking this way. Feel free to chat if you need to!

Chuckhalo October 3rd

I’m going to be honest, you 2 are probably going to split up. Will he likely meet someone new? Yeah, will he cheat on you? Hopefully he’d at least end things before talking to anyone else, I’m sure he would. However as he will likely find someone new, so will you. Plenty of fish in the sea. I’m sure this ain’t the answer you want to hear, but it’s the likely truth.

Frankie111 October 4th

@m1705

I get where you're coming from. It's hard when relationships reaches a different phase. It takes adapting and can put lots of stress on a relationship. Sounds like your afraid of him cheating on you. It's actually a common feeling people have when their partner goes to uni. 

It could help to talk to your boyfriend about it, so that you can feel reassured.