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Just need some support

User Profile: sereneOasis4065
sereneOasis4065 21 hours ago

I’m going through a rough patch in a friendship. And the thing is I just don’t know why….


We’ve been friends since the summer and we clicked so well….i thought we did. But the guy I’m friends with, he avoids me. He never says hi if we see each other in the halls. He looks down, he looks away. But with other girls (and guys) he talks to them looks at them and everything. He even went up to a girl and talked to her compared to me where he told me if I want to talk I can come find him.


I’ve never been friends with a guy and maybe this is normal but it really hurts. And I’m not sure what to do. Everyone’s telling me to move on. But I can’t because when the friendship was good I felt so alive. I felt confident, I felt like I was okay being me. And I know even if I leave the friendship it’ll still stay the same but my days are better when I see him. Even if I just see him from across the hall. And that might be bad.


I just don’t know what to do. He hasn’t answered any of my messages since December and he’s still avoiding me….I'm just lost honestly.