I need help
Im having a bit of a trouble with myself, I’ve been dating with the sweetest man ever, and he really treats me right… the thing is, we don’t have our own home so I just go meet him and stay with him for some days and then I come back home. We deal with our schedules of work and try to make it work. Its little time but it’s what we got.
The problem is, whenever its time for me to go home, I always cry, I’m not sure why, because he does make me really happy but I always end up crying and sad and even mad to go home
I don’t really know why i am like this but it really hurts me, do you have any idea of what could be causing this feeling?
maybe you always think about him
@sincerenessie
@sincerenessie
Is it possible crying is frustration ?
You want to move forward maybe find a place for both of you. maybe you feel like that when together and when packing up to go home you realize this is not what you want regardless if you tell yourself it is working in the meantime.
@sincerenessie That is because you have formed a genuine bond with him, yes you both may not have your own home just yet but it will come eventually, just remain patient. If he is worth the relationship and every trip then all will be well. Sometimes, when we get bonded to people especially with genuine intentions we often cry for many reasons, 1. Just because you have fallen for him, 2. You have become attached, 3. The way he treats you feels so foreign, but so gentle it makes you cry and etc. Be gracious with yourself and be kind to yourself, if he is the one for you then distance, financial means or even looks don't matter as much. My heart goes out to you and sending plenty of positive vibes!❤️
I feel this way too with my significant other, I think it’s mostly because of how much you love him and how emotionally connected you are with him. The love overwhelms you and when it’s finally time to leave you start to feel upset because you have to get use to not seeing him again, please do not worry, it is very normal and overtime it will get better💗
