I feel mentally exhausted from my friendships
Just recently, most of my "friends" take weeks to respond to me and I've told them it upsets me because I have trauma in the past regarding this (I was told I was annoying and cared too much by my last friend groups and also that I wasn't a fun person to talk to, point blank ...) but regardless they really haven't made an effort to respond in a timely manner since I've told them how it makes me feel. I feel like I do something wrong each time it happens and I'm mentally worn down by it. I also work three jobs to pay for bills so I'm simply wanting a conversation when I have the time but I guess it's too much to ask for...they seem to not care and im so sad 😞
@fairmindedBalsam4236
I hear you and have had similar items i reach out ......it is hit or miss if i get a response or answer.................
if they reach out i answer promptly and try to be there for them .......to me it does not seem that hard to answer even if it is telling me they are busy....... i feel some are just wired differently and have taken the attitude they will get back whenever........ i slowly just cut those folks off .... i give plenty of chances before i just respond like they do .......