I don't want to be a mom anymore
Postnatal depression is smashing me after 9 months. I feel exhausted and everything that Chris needs the nanny is up to do it.
I barely have strength. I feel awful, like I have lost the capability of loving my son, but professionals said it happens to lots of women and I'm not mean or incapable of love or recovery.
In the meantime, I'm taking my dear music lessons and focusing on taking care of myself - something we forget to do when having a child.
I have nanny and daycare and I do spend time with Chris. I just don't enjoy it like before. But of course his laugh makes me laugh too. Seeing him eat food eagerly is beautiful.
But I feel tired. I'm going to a specialist soon to understand my emotions and try to adequate life. It's not easy and I won't sugarcoat it. I actually feel like I don't wanna be a mom anymore. But that ain't happening.