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SukoLovesHito133 February 19th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou


*Poke*

I just need someone to talk to, and I knew you’d be a good person to go to!


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Hugs for being a great friend! ♥️

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou February 19th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Aww I'm glad you decided to poke, Suko and ofcourse, here for youu! ❤

Please feel free to share/ talk about anything you need to.

*hugs back* 🤗

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SukoLovesHito133 OP February 19th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Thanks, Sun! The amount of likes this post got in four hours is interesting.


Anyways! I really appreciate you being here for me, especially right now, as life has drastically changed for me

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou February 19th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Hehe we've got lots of supportive people here. Everyone's cheering for Suko. Yay!❤

Ofcourse, lovely. Would you like to share more about the changes, how've you been taking them, anything else on your mind? You've got the space to, and all the time you need.❤

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SukoLovesHito133 OP February 19th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

The Major change in my life right now, Is not only having to change to another school for the 4th time this year, but I’m moving, yet again.


Glad there are so many supportive people here on 7cups! It really makes my day, knowing I’m not alone

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou February 19th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Oh noes, changing schools and moving multiple times doesn't sound fun at all. I see how overwhelming it can get trying to keep up with everything.

How you been holding up, Suko? Please do let us know if we can support in any way.

Aw yes, definitely not alone around here. ❤

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SukoLovesHito133 OP February 19th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

What makes it even worse, is most of my alters (Many the littles) Have been freaking out, and I’ve been trying to help calm them down, but each one is them is constantly having trouble. I also have Insomnia, so sleeping has been a struggle.

I Honestly don’t know how to get support at the moment. However, knowing people have my back, does make it a bit better.

SukoLovesHito133 OP March 17th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

You must never have gotten this 😔

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou March 17th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Aw yes it didn't. Tags are quite something!

Thankyouu for tagging me again today, Suko! ❤

I understand how difficult it must be for the littles to cope with the massive changes they've been presented with truck load of stress, valid for them to express their discomfort through causing troubles. It must've been so hard for you to help them calm, and be gentle with y'all as you navigate through this tough situation, without any support around. :(

I'm really glad you know you've got people to fall back on at cups at least, it may not be enough to compensate for a lack off-here/ in-person support but we truly care for your wellbeing and hope everything will be better soon!

It's been a while already, how have things been going for y'all? How are you handling everything? ❤

Sending lots of love and hugs!

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SukoLovesHito133 OP March 18th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

So, I’ve only told a few people, But we are expecting twins soon, so everyone is excited now, However, we still are all sorta overwhelmed, and the Littles are still a handful.

SukoLovesHito133 OP March 23rd, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Tagging once again, just to make sure you got it 😅

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou March 28th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Thankyouu suko, subscribed to the thread, so hopefully one of the tags/ notifications will work better. :') My responses maybe delayed at times though, if I'm away or something. Please don't worry though! You can always share or talk about anything on your mind! ❤

Ooh expecting twins, that sure is news and I get feeling all overwhelmed about it, despite other people being excited.

What is helpful while comforting the littles usually? We can perhaps be gentle with them, and allow them time to cope with everything going around.

Been a week or so. How have things been going for you? Also moving and school wise?

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SukoLovesHito133 OP March 28th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

So, we are officially moved. I ended up getting good news about the twins yesterday, so that’s nice.


The littles are a different story.. I’ve tried everything, and nothing seems to be working. I’m not sure what to do anymore

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou March 28th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Ooh yall have? how's it going so far? Unpacking, settling, and a whole lot of things to figure. :o Sending lots of strength y'alls way!

Aww I'm glad it's a good news!

It's tough having to manage so much and running out of options. I get how defeating it feels.

You're doing your best Suko, it sure matters. Truly hoping things get better overall! ❤

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SukoLovesHito133 OP April 3rd, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Thank you, Sun! You always bring around the light in the darkest of moments

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou April 3rd, 2023

Ah the reply button went missing Haha! #forums :')

Absolutely no need to thank me, Suko, it's the least I could do and I'm grateful to be of some support. ✨❤

Sending hugs and good wishes. How's April even for y'all so far?

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SukoLovesHito133 OP April 8th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

April has been something else, to be honest.. 😅 One of the littles has talked about wanting to go to space, as a way to relieve the way they feel, because they think running from the problem, will make it better

Other than that, I think we’ve gotten things sorta figured out by now

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Sunisshiningandsoareyou April 15th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

I got this tag thankfuly, but couldnt reply sooner, thanks for the follow up.❤

Aww it sounds like they feel too overwhelmed and need some distance with everything happening, perhaps not ready to acknowledge or tackle the situation, absolutely valid to need some time away though.

What might help comfort them more? Maybe some kind of assurance to take their time or similar?

I'm glad beside that, things have been manageable.❤

Any plans for the weekend?

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SukoLovesHito133 OP April 13th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Tagging you again, just in case! 😅

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hardworkingStrings2265 April 9th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Normally I wouldn't hug a raccoon but he's so cute, lol.😄

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SukoLovesHito133 OP April 9th, 2023

@hardworkingStrings2265

I would have to agree with you 😂

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Sparklingdiamonds April 13th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133


Thanks for the inspiration. It helped bring a much needed laugh.

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SukoLovesHito133 OP April 14th, 2023

@Sparklingdiamonds

Might I ask, What inspired you?

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Satori44 April 15th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133❤️

Sunisshiningandsoareyou June 8th, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133

Sukoooo, it's been a loong time. You're in my thoughts, dear friend. I hope you're doing okie. Hope to hear from you soon. ❤

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SukoLovesHito133 OP June 21st, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou


I actually took a very long break from 7 cups.. I'm back though!


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Sunisshiningandsoareyou June 21st, 2023

@SukoLovesHito133 Good to see you back!

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